Has anyone got any tips on putting baby to bed? My baby used to be rocked to sleep in my arms and then I would place her in her crib and she'd get comfy and drift off. Now she won't let me rock her, throws her whole body back and screams. When I try letting her self sooth in her crib, she continously spits her dumb out and is silly rolling about and playing with her feet. She has started refusing evening naps as well and its making getting her to sleep at night so much worse. Anyone in the same boat? Any tips on getting her to sleep without her fighting me and punching me in the face.
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Learn more about our guidelines.I currently have the Joie i360 spin that’s on the isofix and can’t be removed. Absolute bane of my life switching it between cars because it’s soooo heavy and the seatbelt straps are constantly twisting. Wouldn’t recommend it to anyone! We’re now in need of a second car seat for nursery drop offs and pick ups so I finally get to fob this car seat off to my partner who will use it less and I want a new one for my car lol.
Would anyone recommend their car seat that’s suitable for 1 year old (and preferably for a long time as want to be sustainable and not constantly replacing things) but that’s also suitable/recommended from newborn up too as would like to keep for baby number 2 in the next couple years. TIA
Photo of cute baby feet in said car seat so post hopefully doesn’t get lost lol.

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Me before my first baby: I would NEVER sleep train
Me with my first baby who slept through the night from 10 weeks old: I don’t know how anyone could ever sleep train 😇
Me with my second baby who still wakes every single 45 minutes - 1hr at 8mo : 😵💫😵💫😵💫 googles “gentlest sleep training methods”
Anyone else? (We have tried EVERYTHING by the way, every dang thing).
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I am an Aunty to many children mostly 10 and upwards now so I've cared for many babies and children but having my first child (who is almost 1 and I am turning 38 soon), I have just found it quite full on. Newborn days were a breeze but as days have gone on I guess with lack of sleep post 8 months I feel like it's impacting my mental health and I think these three meals a day and caring for everybody and lack of sleep. I don't know if I can do this all over again for another child. I want to be one and done but I want him to have a sibling so when we are no longer here he has someone not just his cousins.
Let me preface this by saying I know everyone's circumstances is different but I just wondered if anyone else felt similar before going on to have more children and coped OK?
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How long did you rest after a straight forward vaginal birth?
(Asking for this birth as I know c-section/complications require a different level of recovery).
I’m interested to know how quick you returned to household chores and general ‘mumming’ following birth of baby.
I love the idea of the 5-5-5 (5 days in bed, 5 days on the bed, 5 days around the bed) for rest, but I’m curious to know if anyone actually stuck to this or something similar, or if guilt got in the way!
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How do you shower yourself and baby like where does he go when I shower
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I had two vaginal delivers and i feel I’m loose done there. My husband did not say so maybe he doesn’t wants to hurt me but I don’t feel the same anymore. What can be done or will it recover in time ? Tips pls
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