What does your spouse think?

All my gardening mamas what does your partner say/think about you gardening or smoking a cart or eating thc gummies? Do they not care or do they run a strict program and don’t think you should do any of that?

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

We garden together🤷‍♀️

Mine used to smoke with me. But he can’t now. One because he’s in the military and two his body doesn’t tolerate it. So he doesn’t mind.

I can’t do it till I know everything is good with the house and kids.. well do it together occasionally

Mines don't do it. But he doesn't mind me doing it. He loves it though, cause it gives me lots of energy in pretty much every way.

I’m a SAHM with my med card, my husband used to smoke before me and did a couple times with me. Has no problem with me doing it and is the one paying for my scheduled order 👏🏻😅

mine and i do together!! he had to stop for his job a while back, then i got pregnant and had to stop! we both plan to start back up once i can again, especially with the physical pain we both deal with! i smoke bud and bing he mostly smokes carts! he stopped vaping with me and all for the pregnancy:) we both miss it haha

No issues at all. I smoke responsibly as I don't over do it and honestly it makes playing with the baby easier for these old bones. If I'm super stressed or obviously need a break he will encourages that I take a breath and relax outside for a minute.

My husband is my smoking buddy

I love all of you guys respond but what if he didn’t let you how would you guys cope with everything?

My husband doesn’t care. I’ve been smoke our whole relationship (12 years). Every once and a blue moon he’ll hit my pen. Sometimes if he’s body guarding for someone who smoke he’ll bring home a lot of flowers for me just cos the artist got tired of smoking the same strain. It’s a fun balance and something I don’t have to share with him lmao

He supports my decision.

in our community

Husband omitted he was havibg drinks with Co workers after work

Hi guys! Just need advice. This has just been bugging and I have a weird feeling about what happened.

My husband usually tells me if he has lunch at work or some activities at work. But this time, he only said he'll be home late. He did not say he went out with co workers or anything relating to it.

When he got home, he usually talks about what happened at work etc. But last night he did not say anything.

So he did not eat a lot of dinner last night when he arrived. I asked him the next day. Why did he go home late last night. He just said he was drinking with his co workers. Then expanded nervously that his coworker is moving to a different job hence they went out.

There's so many things going on in my mind right now. And i feel a sick to stomach thinking I don't trust him anymore. Anything he will say will probably be a lie. I just can't do this. I feel like leaving him cause I just can't live with nit trusting my husband. The sad thing is I have 2 kids and i dont know what to do.

Idk if I’m exaggerating

I’ve always loved the holidays!
When I met my partner he didn’t care about holidays and decorations. Since we moved in together 6 years ago he started loving it which I’m glad he does now. But this years he’s getting on my nerves about the holidays. We moved to smaller place, we don’t have storage like the previous apartment. He’s been wanting to decorate since the beginning of the month, I tell him to wait for summer to be almost over and he says I suck. He’s been buying so many decoration and changing almost everything around the apartment, he came home with 3 packages today and bought a cover for our electric stove (yes is pretty, but all I’m thinking about is I will have more stuffs to clean). Tbh I feel like he’s killing the vibe for me, I don’t feel excited about decorating when he’s pressuring and buying lots of stuffs. If I tell him how I feel he’ll get mad, say I suck and say I’m killing the vibe for him so I just stay quiet.

Am I wrong?

BD has taken our 7 month old away for 2 nights and 3 days so that he can spend time with his family.
Baby has never been away from me for longer than 4 hours.
I asked if they could go for 1 long day rather than that lomg as it seemed excessive but once again there's never any compromise.

My son keeps saying he’s hungrey

I already fed him fruit and spaghetti’ 🍝 he ate good. He keeps saying he’s hungrey just to get me to the kitchen only for him to ask for a freeze pop he keeps asking for freeze pops he had a lot of snacks today idk man it’s kinda annoying should I jus give him a freeze pops he since it’s just favored ice 🧊 or should I ignore him he’s 2 goin on 3 last time he had ice cream was about 2 hours ago today !!!

Daycare mama

I start work on Monday and my daughter will be in day care, they said I can call to check in anytime, does anyone else do this? I will probably be calling 3 times (around when baby should be done eating) or is that too much. Just an anxious mom here 🙃

Emotional neglect in marriage

Nothing serious but I just feel my husband isn’t there for me anymore on an emotional level. We just had our 3rd baby but I went through a lot as she was in intensive care for a few weeks she nearly died, then following that I needed to care for her at home without any help. My mum is also currently going through cancer treatment having chemotherapy and soon a stem cell transplant so she hasn’t been able to be there for me as much as she would have (I know I sound selfish but I’ve needed my mum because of what I’ve been through plus just the juggle of 3 children). Anyway my husband doesn’t seem to want to make time for me or show me any kind of love and I wish that he would because I’m going through stuff. Instead he keeps saying that he’s been through a lot because he lost his job and was looking for a new job. He does have a new job now and makes time to go to the gym nearly everyday so if he has time for that surely he’s not as stressed as me? He manages to unwind every evening and have a drink whereas I’m too exhausted to do that. He hasn’t done anything wrong but he’s just not there for me and keeps using excuses that he’s always busy with work etc. Am I being too over sensitive? My self care is just managing to wash my hair when I can and I put a bit of make up on. I think I’ve just been through so much and wish I had a close bond with my husband. Plus he’s always there for his mum and dad whatever they want he does for them at the drop of a hat plus they’re here every Friday night without fail and don’t leave until 10.30pm. I’m struggling with my emotions and just need cheering up or to know I’m not going mad! X