Sex

Hey Ladies. I have avoided having sex since I saw the positive test! I am now 13 weeks and just need other mamas to tell me it will be ok 🫣 I have had lots of losses in the past, never made it this far so I am just overall cautious. My pregnancy is all tracking normal, scans have looked fab and no one has said I can’t (I cannot go a whole 9 months😅) thanks girlies xx

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Can I ask why you're avoiding sex gal? I've had it right through (also 13 weeks) and baby is doing its thing. I regularly get vaginal cramps and sex actually helps with pains x

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It’s absolutely safe, just be warned that you may get cramping and spotting afterwards due to your cervix being irritated, I’ve recently had that scare and my poor fella is now no longer allowed near me 😂

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I did the same in the early days, whenever i tried i ended up getting cramps and it freaked me out! Around 10 weeks though this stopped, and the 12 week scan was enough reassurance. It’s fine either way, it’s only mentally scary but physically there is no risk. whenever you feel ready ☺️

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