Has anyone had a birthday party a few weeks before the actual day?

I don’t think so! And if anyone asks why it’s so early, you can tell them that you want her to be able to recover from her surgery without worrying about planning a party.
Only the heartless would be mad at that reasoning lol

Yes. A party is a party and it needs to work with your life so it’s enjoyable. She’s being celebrated and feeling loved before her procedure. It will be great.

My son’s birthday is July 4th. And no one is ever in town, or has big plans. I always do it a few weeks before or after to guarantee his friends and family can attend. Do what’s best for you!! We always do a special party with just us here at the house on the 4th, and then his big party is later.

I plan to for my daughter because my second babys 1st birthday is 3 weeks ahead and I’m combining parties due to multiple family weddings around my daughters birthday and just easier than having two parties 3 weeks apart

Yup no big deal :) we did it for my daughter’s first bday so we could combine with her baby dedication at church!

We're having a party 3 weeks before my son's birthday as it falls at a weird time over school holidays