For any twin mums/mums-to-be - how are you dealing with the constant reminders of being high risk and all of the scary things that could happen?
I’ve had my first consultant appointment and growth scan today. All looks really good from the scan but the consultant appointment afterwards really took allllll of the reassurance away, with the long list of things that could happen and ‘to be aware of’.
I know the worry likely won’t go until they’re safely here, but how are you coping with the constant worry/scary reminders? Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated 🩷
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Girl same! I had mine yesterday and honestly it's hard bot to think omg that's scary! Why do they have to come so soon. I'm also really struggling with all of those questions too! Xx
I'm 13 weeks now, I'm using 2-3 pillows around me 😂 they're all good quality & I'm happy with them. Using one under my head/neck, hugging another +/- 1 more behind my back or to elongate the hug sometimes. I cannot substitute the main tempur head pillow as it's most comfortable for my neck issues so is it really worth removing the rest & trying a pregnancy pillow in addition to the head one or this arrangement should work the same?

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my husband and I were gifted a spa day for 2 for the entire day with a massage, swimming, sauna, all of it and it’s very kind. but i’m so nervous about leaving the baby without me or my husband there that it makes me feel like i could throw up!!! baby is 5 weeks now and i’ve only left for an hour or two an left him with my husband only so far. did you have an okay experience leaving baby first time? what will ease my anxiety tips?

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I’ve just found out I’m pregnant again and I currently have a 9-month-old 🥺❤️
I have such mixed emotions. I’m happy, shocked, scared and honestly overwhelmed. I never expected to be pregnant again so soon and I’m struggling to know what’s best for me, my little one and the new baby.
For mums who have had babies close together, how did you find it? Was it as difficult as you imagined, or did you adjust better than you expected?
I’d really love to hear your experiences, especially from mums who had around 12–18 months between their babies. ❤️

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Anyone else feeling super impatient especially seeing everyone’s little ones coming🩵🩷 it makes me so excited!!🥰 3 weeks to go today!!
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Hey everyone I am very anxious about baby. I am four weeks and 5 days and i really just want to make sure everything is okay. What do I do to ease this anxiety until I can see my baby for the first time?

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im currently 7 weeks pregnant and getting a lil anxious about everything 🥹😖

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