Should I cut her off?

This happens so, so often. I don’t know why. My friend kept calling herself an aunt to my baby when I was pregnant and she couldn’t have given less of a shit if she tried when he was here. Cut that dead weight. Make some mum friends locally and don’t waste another second of your energy on your old friend.

i wouldn’t ever just cut someone off without getting the full picture. just send her an honest message saying look it’s been upsetting me that i feel like you’re making no effort to see me anymore or stay in contact. is it something i did, are you okay? etc etc. if she leaves that on read then 100% i’d say the friendship is over, BUT at least you tried to salvage it and understand from her point of you. you never know what people are going through, not justifying it but she may reply with a heartfelt message and explanation you never know. it’s worth a shot x

I wanna say cut her off but I’m going through the same thing been friends 13 years and I really don’t want too but this constant chasing and getting nothing in return isn’t good for anyone

maybe you don’t have to cut her off entirely, just give her back the same energy she gives you and don’t go out of your way for her anymore, the relationship might fall off naturally or improve, but i say don’t burn the bridge just give her what she gives you back

You cannot force someone to be your friend, let her go, no need to waist your time on such people. I am sure your time now is precious ✨️

Hmm. This sounds very similar to a real life situation that happened to me but I am the friend who hasn't made an effort. Happy for you to message me privately to explain to you as that friend why I haven't made an effort and it might be a different perspective. I just don't want to put all my business on here tbh. If you don't want to message me that's cool but all I will say is there are two sides to every story.