Do you shout at your child

I keep seeing posts where they say they don’t shout at their child/raise their voice, and I’m just wondering how this is humanely possible 😂 I am a very patient person, or so I thought until I became a toddler mum, but I’m often shouting numerous times a day, I do feel bad but I can’t stop myself from doing it. It’s always after I’ve asked nicely and patiently about 4 times and get ignored that I start getting cross, shouting isn’t my go to.

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My son doesn't listen unless I shout 😭 he's in his defiant phase at the moment😭

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same here even though half the time the shouting doesn’t work too 😭😂

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I find that shouting doesn't work with my boy - I have to get down on his level and speak to him calmly and I make sure he's listening by telling him to turn his ears on but that doesn't mean I don't lose it sometimes cas he can be hard work 🤣

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We shout at each other because he’s feral 😂

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gentle parenting is for gentle kids 😭😂

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