Husband is furious…

Likely just high stress. Bedtime is stressful and he's venting because you interrupted. I wouldn't take it too personally. I wouldn't say he's overreacting because it's how he feels. If he's still dragging it on even after she's asleep then maybe I'd say he's doing too much

I have to admit I’ve been this way when I’ve been putting my daughter down and my annoying neighbour starts knocking on my door or shouting up at the bedroom window, in those moments I feel like I could commit murder. Soon passes though.

Stressed and probably tired himself. My partner and I went through this stage but luckily my partner doesn't get angry like I do. Try to do something nice in the next few days that he likes like his favorite meal and reiterate that your sorry. Unless its an emergency I now leave my partner alone while he gets our daughter down.

He will get over it and she will settle back down when hes calm again. Heck maybe he will come out and apologize for blowing up on you and explain that it was just a hard night to get her down.

I honestly think kids bring out the best and worst sizes of ourselves we never thought we had

My husband has waken my child and yes I got mad cause he went to bed and she was up. But I wasn’t furious just made a remark.

Has he ever done this to you? There were times I would also get angry when my husband interrupted putting our girl to sleep. The difference is I would not blow up with text or react that way. My husband would text and he learned if I don't write back then baby still awake or we both fell asleep and usually he would just not come in, but sometimes he would and she would be awake, but it would be to join. U also have to learn to set boundaries with her. My girl wanted to play to,but I had to be firm and clear is bed time tomorrow morning is play time. I know is hard,but u have to ignore or give options. Do u want some night music? Pink or blue blanket? Cuddles or no cuddles? When he is calm communicate on what to do if this were to occur again. And to go in or not is a gamble

...why are the keys in that room? Seems like a communication thing to me so i cant vote.

Tbh I do this aswell , when I have had a really stressful day and it comes to putting my bubba to sleep she dosnt sleep easy and she dont sleep woth noise. When I see she is almost asleep I feel a sigh of realf if then her dad woke her up even by axident I get so fuming because he knows im getting her to sleep so be quite until shes down. ( in a deep sleep)
Mind you I do 6 days a week on my own 4am - 6pm )
So when its bubbas bed time its my time then and yea i get peed ss I want some well deserved me time.