I NEED HELP

Mamas with HG, does Gardening help you with it? I’m not against doing it while pregg but I was avoiding it but now I’m at a loss. I’m genuinely about to try ANYTHING. Nothing helps and I have a whole toddler ☠️

in our community

Funded hours

Does anyone know the actual eligibility for 30 hours funded childcare in UK?
I’ve read it’s if you earn 100k or less a year but I know some people who aren’t eligible for it when they earn 30k or so
Super confusing
Any advice or information will be appreciated! 🙏🏻

Is this normal for a caring loving partner

Today, I came home around 10pm and found our daughter still awake, so I asked my boyfriend what had happened and whether she’d had her milk. He said he’d been busy and had given her snacks instead. When she asked for a banana, I said no because it was bedtime, but he still handed her the banana while it was still in its peel. I asked why he gave it to her, and he told me to stop questioning him. I explained that I was trying to understand and make sure we were on the same page. I then agreed to put our daughter to bed because I thought he had something he needed to do, but he was actually just sitting on his phone. I asked him to put her to bed so I could cook, ice a cake and prepare for my early start, I need to be up and out by 6am tomorrow morning, but he refused because we’d already agreed that I would do it. I asked again because I needed the help, but he still refused, so I put her to bed myself. Overall, I feel like whenever I ask questions or seek clarity, he feels questioned and becomes defensive, which leaves me feeling dismissed and frustrated.

In laws visit

I am struggling with how to approach my husband or how to manage the in laws visit from abroad for a month as they want to come and stay for a month at my home arriving before my twins arrive I don’t have the best relationship with them and don’t want them to come for that long and before the babies arrive, what or how should I manage this with my husband?

Messy house ..is it just me ?

I have a 6 month old and a 2 year old and my house just constantly feels overwhelming to me. I can't keep up with it all....
Is it just me...? I don't know what I'm doing wrong...

Just caught my partner cheating

I found just over a hundred pictures of naked women and porn videos on my partner of 3 years phone tonight. I am absolutely heart broken.

What makes it worst it’s on an escort site and he’s watching live videos saying he would love to meet etc. I feel violently sick. He has gone out of way to search for these individuals on fb,twitter and Instagram which to me is way worse than just watching Porn and closing a video.

I knew something was up he has ben acting so strange with me for months and saying no to sex etc.

Our little one is 8 months old and I’ve given up everything for this life now it’s all gone to shit. Apart from my baby of course.

I just can’t believe it, I never thought in a million years he would be that type of person. The first screenshot was from when I was 15 weeks pregnant till last week.

He’s cried, said sorry, saying it’s a porn addiction which I know is real for some but going out of way to message them and search them is next level to me.

I hate him and feel like I can’t forgive this but I also don’t want a broken family

Disney meet up?

I have an almost 10 month old baby boy and I have an annual pass but don’t have the courage to go alone 😂 I live in okeechobee but am used to driving long distances on a weekly basis since I live in BFE 🫠