For all those who are working moms could you share what your before & after work routine looks like? Besides my April ‘24 baby I also have a 1 year old. The last couple of years have been a blur and I feel like I am struggling here. It feels so hard to allocate time for family, stay on top of chores, and having a second of self care.
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I would also love to know what's working for people.

It’s easier said than done but try to get up early for self care and to start your day so you’re not rushing out the house. Set 7 min to bond and pray over your kids during breakfast or in the car to drop off at daycare. When you get back do not sit down until dinner is prepped but I recommend to meal prep on Sundays. After dinner time cuddle with the kids and then another 7 minutes of 1v1 and bonding. After you put them to sleep set a timer for 20 mintues for cleaning. After that spend 30 on self care drink tea and call it a night. It’ll be hard but will be worth it.
My little lady is 4.5 months and has just started sleeping through the night (last 2weeks) she’s in size 2 pampers or size 3 supermarket own as they’re smaller.
I’ve pried pampers, Morrisons, Aldi nappies and through the night she’s leaking. Any recommendations, please?
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I know routines are hard at this age but does anyone have somewhat of a structure to their day with their LO? I. E when does LO nap and for how long and when do they go to sleep.
My LO is a bad sleeper with multiple wake ups during the night. I’m really deliberating whether it’s because of the naps he’s having during the day. I usually allow him to have one long contact nap in the morning (to make sure he’s not groggy for the rest of the day) his other naps are usually short and I put him down for them. I also like to hold him for his last nap so he’s not overtired and I can put him down for bedtime easier. He falls asleep anywhere between 7-8:30pm depending on how the day has gone.
Any tips / advice would be v helpful!

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My almost 4 week old doesn’t go down to sleep until 10:30-11pm, she has a few wakes which is fine, but the last block somehow kill’s me off. Her last wake is around 5:30/6am ish and it seems to take me the longest to settle her back to sleep at this hour and by the time I’ve finished my 3.5 year old is ready to talk my ear off at 7am prompt and ofc needs personal care and breakfast.
I’ve been able to rest as luckily my partner is still on leave, but I am anxiously anticipating his return to work and don’t know how I’ll do it!! 3 days of the week we will have to be out the door to the childminder, but the rest of the 4 he’s home with me😬.
How are we getting through the mornings/days with our eldest whilst sleep deprived?!
Any tips are welcome

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What products and types of Medicine do people recommended ,my little boy is 6 weeks so I know it’s to early but I want to be prepared and have what I need in now for the winter season so I don’t have to then sort it at the time ,anything people recommend for colds ,teething etc

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Checking if your babies who are going through sleep regression also waking up before their usual time in the morning (apart from multiple wakings through the night). My LO used to sleep so well from 9 PM to 9 AM with one tiny feed at around 4/5 am. This bedtime works very well for our family. Now that the regression has hit us hard, she is waking up 3 or 4 times and then finally waking up fully alert and cheery around 7.30 am (1-1.5 hrs earlier than usual). Is this happening with you? Do you fully wake them up and start the day or just ride through this time till they are ready to sleep again? Sorry for the long post!
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Does anyone have any suggestions for play mats? I need something spongy and soft to put my baby on so he can play on the floor. He's 4 months old but I want something he can continue to use as he grows. It would also be helpful if it was waterproof or stain resistant as he's got reflux and is sick sometimes
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