Viagra pills are prescription oral tablets used to treat erectile dysfunction (ED) by increasing blood flow to the penis during sexual arousal.
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Learn more about our guidelines.What if he took viagra pills because he couldn’t get hard / be sexually attracted to you anymore

ED is a medical condition. Why would I be annoyed he's treating a medical condition? ED is pretty much never about sexual attraction and men shouldn't be shamed for it or made to feel guilty.

Unless I've missed something and he's literally said "you are disgusting and that's why I need Viagra" or something along those lines then no.
Otherwise- Gently, it's not about you and your ego, it's about him. He's probably feeling some level of embarrassment that things aren't functioning as they used to, he doesn't need a pile on where you make him feed bad for hurting your feelings about something that is likely out of his control. That doesn't mean you can't talk to him for reassurance and acknowledge your own feelings about it I just wouldn't be confrontational with him about it. He's recognised that there's an issue and rather than just not having sex (which would probably also hurt your feelings) he's done something about it. Unless there's more to the story I wouldn't have any issues with this.

As far as I know Viagra pills don’t make someone more sexually attracted to you, it helps with keeping an erection whilst the sexual attraction is already there. Like the above said it’s a medical condition and taking them would only just improve your sex life with him.

Yeah like others are saying Viagra doesn’t make you attracted to someone you aren’t. They don’t alter your mindset or anything they just increase blood flow because they actually want to be intimate with you anyways.

my ex had a very bad spinal injury which meant sometimes he needed to use viagra to help him out. nothing wrong with that, and honestly sex with viagra is better in my opinion. (TMI!!!) harder and longer 🤣 no cons to me! xx

Id be upset that he hadn’t shared a problem or issue with me. Not the fact he was taking them to have sex.
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Anyways, I feel completely scared of looking at all of the birth control. I used to be on the shot and then the one time I stopped taking it since I was 14 I almost made 12 months and then my baby daddy got me pregnant. And then for maybe almost a year they put a device in my arm that they eventually took out because they thought it was causing other medical symptoms and I wasn’t sexually active anyways they just wanted to do it just to do it if you know what I mean. But I’ve been looking over the Options down to the patch and I do currently suffer from chronic migraines, nausea and dizziness, and I’ve seen terrible reviews where people claim they’ve gotten blood clots and other variety of different symptoms. I feel like I wanted at least try it, but it seems so traumatizing and then on the other side I feel like every time I go to the clinic or the doctors office. Every other person I come into contact with tells me a story about how every other one of their kids they were on birth control.😭😭😭 I wouldn’t be mad if I ended up with A Child, but I don’t wanna have to go through having something like IUD or Nexplanon or vaginal ring, inserted and go through all of that to either end of pregnant anyways or something worse you know? Sometimes I hate being that 5% that always catches all the random symptoms and side effects.😩😩😩
I’m hoping somebody can ease my mind on their experience. The last thing I wanna do is the IUD or pills I hate having to swallow pills, but I’ve only ever done the shot and that was ages ago.
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Husband just started being Christian. Happened extremely fast. I’m not Christian. His also extremely conservative now. I’m not.
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If im not watching the baby im in the room sleep or just time away while hes watching the baby. If im watching the baby hes at work or on the game. We dont spend time together
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