Dating while pregnant
Has anyone dated while pregnant. What was your experience like? Did you meet men who had empathy and genuinely wanted to get to know you or fetishized you and just wanted to have a good time?
If you did have a good experience did this person turn into a long term partner?
The father has abandoned me pregnant after already having a 3 year old and I honestly don't want to go through pregnancy alone and genuinely want to move on with life. It was a very dramatic ending turned into DV on his part so there's no going back for me.
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I think if you just so happen to meet someone while pregnant or you find out you're pregnant after meeting someone, it's very happenstance and different from actively dating and seeking a partner while pregnant. I think it's very possible to find someone who is not trying to be a creep, but again that's really by chance.
DV is not as simple as never going back. You have a lot of trauma you're putting behind you and that's not what you want to bring into a new relationship. I would really suggest adjusting your expectations and accepting you may go through this pregnancy alone.
I agree with the person above that you should adjust your expectations. Honestly, going through pregnancy alone is easier than going through it with someone that’s making your life hell constantly, you don’t need the added stress. You should focus on healing, your babies, your future. You’ll attract a better person to be with if you’re healthier yourself. I say this all from experience. It’s hard to be alone but that’s the best way to move on.
I was in that market last week on Hinge. Not impossible, but I decided to call it quits to just work more on myself and focus on Bub. There’s catfish men on there too. Digital age is annoying like that 😩
You are at least in the right place to be able to make friends so you won’t be alone 😊
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