Baby needs constant stimulation

My baby very rarely can just sit and chill. He needs me to be there and entertain him / talk to him. He’s approaching 3 months. I find it difficult to just leave him in his bouncer or play mat and get on with things. He gets bored really quickly. I always speak to him but he needs to see me otherwise he starts whinging. Is this normal?

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My LO is nearly 4 months old and its very normal. They don't know that you will come back when you leave their eyesight they have no object permanence yet. I have found having my son in his rocker in whatever room I'm doing a job in IE the kitchen doorway while I make tea etc helps to keep him entertained. Other than that he often has a teether or is on his mat for 10 mins or so and some days things don't get done, other days they do

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