Cheating….
What would you think if your husband response to you saying you’d buy him some new underwear was ‘I don’t want you buying my underwear’
He was getting ready for work this morning and was moaning that he didn’t have any tops or boxers, I said I ask you every time I go shopping if you need anything and his response was ‘I don’t want you buying my underwear’ I said oh that’s nice, it’s alright for you to buy me underwear but I can’t buy you any. He said yes but I buy you nice underwear- i said well I’m not gonna buy you grandad underwear am I am- and he said ‘I said no, you aren’t buying me my underwear and that’s that’
We’ve been together 15 years and have two kids together.
In the past he has been unfaithful, he hasn’t given me any reason to think otherwise other than this comment this morning. We haven’t been getting on very well for the last week. But this has concerned me a little bit as I think it’s a really odd thing to say.
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Maybe he is particular on what underwear he likes to wear ? I wouldnt think of it as a cheating clue.
I can’t stand people that moan but the solution to solve the moan is clear and easy but they still refuse. One order online he could have it delivered home within the next couple days. Instead he doesn’t want you to buy his underwear. Either tell him to put his own order in/go buy it, himself, but don’t he ever dare complain that he has no undies. I think I’d lose it if he mentioned it again tbh.
I definitely wouldn’t think cheating based on his response it seems like maybe his preference for underwear has change. It was still a weird response tho
My man is similar. Won’t let me buy his socks or underwear. I know he is picky about his underwear but I also think it’s an ego thing. Instead of a pack, I bought an individual I liked for special bedroom days or whenever he wants to think about me lmao. He wears them to work sometimes.
I buy my dad and brother in law underwear, what a strange comment. I don't get it? Why is he being so weird?
I have no idea what’s going on with him, he’s never had an issue with me buying them before- I know what he likes and dislikes
Our daughter is hard work, she’s 8 months old and it’s fair to say she’s definitely put a lot of strain on our marriage, we both run our own businesses so come the end of the day I’m so tired it leaves little time for us to be intimate or have any ‘us’ time.
I don’t know what’s going on with him but it just seemed like a really unnecessary thing to say.
He could have just said ‘thank you for the offer but I’d prefer to buy my own, I’ve changed my preferences on what I like’ or ‘we’ll go shopping at the weekend’ but it was how snappy he was towards me. Was a bit out of character for him.
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