Hey girls so long story short I found out that my bd had his gf over his house this past Sunday and the girl was kissing and coddling my sons (18 months and 3 months old) so I pulled up to his house unexpected to get my kids back and he refused. We currently don’t have any sort of custody agreement at all. He was pushing me trying to get me to back away from the car which is where they were all in when I pulled up so I called the cops … tell me why the cops told me I had no choice but to leave my kids with him ..? Like is that even right? The cops said bc I left our kids with him I had no choice but to leave them even after I told her I only asked him to watch them Saturday and he knew I was coming to get them Sunday early anyway.
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First of all weird - you must be in the USA second of all the way I would drag her by her hair

Why tf would she kiss your child. It's RSV season and that shit is scary..I'm literally angry for you. You have no idea what that woman could have and at this point you should just take him to court. No only for child support but for legal custody agreements so he can never pull that shit again that's my biggest nightmare..I'm so glad my daughter's father isn't in the picture
Mind yall this dude cheated on me with this now gf when I was 9 months pregnant with our youngest and I found out at 2 weeks post partum

He sounds like a right prick ! Police also sucks.