Need a rant!

My partner refuses to stop swearing around and at my toddler and my toddler is picking up on stuff and repeating it. It’s becoming a proper problem and he keeps telling people to fuck off. I have no idea how to stop it because my partner just won’t help me with it, he swears literally every other word and calls my toddler really awful words and when I ask him not to he just tells me not to tell him how to parent and it’s his decision. I’m getting so sick of it!!

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Myself personally I dont have a problem with swearing in general but swearing at children and calling them names is surely emotional abuse?

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