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Advice on boundaries

Hi mums! I'm desperate for some advice regarding setting boundaries with my mother.

For context, my husband (27) and I (25) currently live at home with my parents. I'm pregnant with our first baby during the week of Christmas and struggling with trying to set boundaries with my mother regarding our baby especially within the first few weeks of her life.

My mother is under the impression that I need to follow in the same footsteps as my older sister who allowed visitors in hospital to her twin babies within days of them being born, however I do not feel comfortable with this as I am due to give birth during peak flu/illness season and Christmas, and I am wary about getting our baby ill, plus the fact that I will be recovering from birth already at home with my parents and I would like to spend time with my husband and our baby, learning how to breastfeed and getting used to being a family together and building routines with our baby before we start passing her around to visitors. My mother is adamant that regardless of when our baby is born, there will be lots of family coming to visit myself and the baby when I have stated my discomfort with visitors directly after giving birth and I feel at my wits end trying to explain that I would really like to decide for myself when I feel that I am ready for anyone to visit.

My dilemma is that we live at home with my parents and it is their house: I know I do not have the right to tell them who they can and cannot have in their house at any point but I would have hoped that I could at least have time with my newborn baby and husband as a new family and time for me to recover from birth. Since our baby is due around Christmas there is the possibility that she could be born on Christmas Day or Boxing Day, for example. Our family visits on Boxing Day for gifts and Christmas dinner, and my mother insists that she will not stop the family from visiting on Boxing Day if I do end up giving birth within that week before or on Boxing Day.

Is there any way I can get through to her about my discomfort around visitors without sounding like I am trying to police who visits her home? She has told me I can just stay in my bedroom with the baby whilst the family visits but I cannot be locked in my bedroom all day with my baby just to avoid unwanted visitors. My sister in law tells me that my mother is being unreasonable and that since it is my baby I should be able to decide when I am ready for visitors, but she does live at home with us and my mother will not budge.
Please help!