Mothers being told they don’t do anything!!

Tell him that the comment made you feel hurt and unappreciated. Ask him what his expectations around the home are and yall can discuss ways to get him more involved. I fully understand the desire to just stop everything to show him but honestly I don’t think that would really help and it would just cause more resentment to fester up.

I can understand why you’re feeling so hurt and unappreciated, especially with everything you’re managing. Sometimes there’s more going on beneath the surface of these disagreements, and I think it’s worth understanding what each person is experiencing. Your feelings deserve to be heard, too. 💚

I'm sorry your going through this. As I have had my fair share of realtionship issues, I often find unkind words are a reflection of the individual saying them. This is not an excuse for the comment by any means but a possible explanation. He could feel like he isn't doing or providing enough. That could be financially or emotionally due to his schedule as im sure he wishes to have more time with you guys during day but has to rest for work. I feel that people can become insecure if they want a partner to stay home and take care of the house and children, but can't maybe create the ideal circumstances for the image in their mind. This is where I could see him lashing at you because he knows there is a short coming but he won't accept its him. Not saying this is the case, just wanted to share my experience. Hope things improve for you🙂

Im glad I could help! Yes thats makes alot of sense I am also navigating the same thing. I am working on skill building and other things to open new opportunities, but I do often wish I could contribute more or if I had more we'd be better off, but at the end of the days its a agreed partnership and being home with a child is a huge sacrifice whether people want to admit it or not! You're doing great and that's what your child sees!