Emergency C Section Recovery

I had an emergency section 4 months ago... it was so much worse than I had ever been told. I was lightheaded and disoriented for about 3 weeks after. Passing wind, wee or poo hurt and announced themselves with horrendous sharp stomach cramps. The only thing is I had no problems with scar at all. I started to massage it with bio oil after 6 weeks. It still feels a bit tight and tender when touched but looks very good I can barely see it. Give it time, you are still super early days - it's major surgery. I still feel like I'm healing now- my core feels quite weak still x

Mine hurt a bit more on the side where they did the final stitches, honestly at this point just leave it alone and rest as much as you can, I was unable to rest and that led to longer healing time and im still dealing with consequences of not resting properly now my insides are fused badly from not resting, wait the 6 weeks minimum then enjoy scar massage and other light movements x

The side that hurts more will be the side the surgeon tied off on! Im 31 weeks with baby no.2 and my first is 3 in a few weeks- i can feel that side even now where its all stretching!
Stay on top of pain relief, this is so important-