I had an ectopic in March 2025, been trying ever since we were told it was safe to do so. So well over a year now. LH tests every month, conceive plus, tablets. I keep seeing so many people conceiving just months after an ectopic, am I doing something wrong?
Did anyone do anything different after an ectopic that they think worked? Im just so deflated now.
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It can take many so long to conceive and it can be really difficult, I'm sorry you're going through this. But honestly, if you're on track with your cycle, are trying as frequently as you want to, all you can do is rest, eat well, take care of yourself and enjoy life. Stress and pressure also really impacts fertility
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Okay… so LO is 8 weeks old, it’s looks as though she’s got some dried milk in her ear, assuming from spit up or being sick in the night and I haven’t noticed. How do I get it out? I feel awful that I haven’t noticed it but not sure what to do about it!
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39 weeks and after having false contractions and braxton hicks for the last week, my waters broke and don’t really feel any kind of tightening anymore. Baby is moving fine just feels strange to be leaking everywhere.
Everyone said it would be like trickling but it’s a lot of gushes that I wasn’t expecting. Is this normal for most?

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Anyone else? He’s not even attempting it.
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Might be TMI but for the past three days I’ve been having the craziest rectal cramping pain and it’s mostly triggers when I go to pee. I don’t know if baby is pressing on some nerves but I think I may have to go MAU to see what’s going on because even when I’m walking sometimes I feel the cramp and it’s so painful
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