Second baby after traumatic birth and at 40?

I’d say the older you get the harder it is for the weight to fall off, but with consistency you can do it. If you want no.2 go go go!

I don’t have much advice other than from an older mum perspective. I am 45 with a 3 and a 1 year old. Natural pregnancies for both, no health issues for them or me. I did lose two pregnancies in between. That was tough, but it can happen at any age. There is so much stigma around age. Of course it can become more tricky over 40, they make you aware that you carry more risks, but that is a generalisation and so many women have no problems at all. Despite what the general consensus seems to be, women have been doing it forever. I see mums of little ones around my age all the time. Don’t let that stop you if you want another baby. Good luck x

It's hard decision but I would say if you feel you want another little one and you don't have medical tourbles - go for it ❤️
I had the second baby at age of 38 and we are definitely done (despite my husband wanting 3)because my second pregnancy was completely opposite to first one (which was perfect)... In my second pregnancy I was so sick the majority of time and had complications and baby came 2 months early and I would just be scared that next baby would come even sooner...
Plus I must admit I feel like I don't have energy and I wish I was 10 years younger as think I would handle sleep deprivation and everything much better. I remember my gynecologist nurse was telling me for ages that the best biological age to have kids is being 24 years old and I understand why 😅