Tantrums

I personally let him tantrum it out of his system. I don’t give in. My husband on the other hand will give in!

I acknowledge why he's frustrated/upset and explain why he can't do what he wants etc. I then leave him for a few minutes to feel his feelings and then return to him and offer a cuddle. He then complete surrenders to the cuddle and within a few minutes will be distracted by something else

I leave her to it and just get on with whatever I was doing she stops within a few seconds when she realises I'm not paying any attention to it