Second baby

How did you know you were ready for another baby? I have a nearly 2 year old and debating currently 🫠

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Tell me what you see, I took this today, 3 days before my period is due. You thing it's a positive?

i’m on cycle day 12 and this was my ovulation test ik its negative ofc but it’s really light compared to previous cycles at this point so just wanted to know what this means
is it normal? or could it mean im not gonna get my peak this month only on my third cycle tracking it and i had the implant out 3 months ago
this cycle has been different from the past 2 my period was really painful and on and off

Has anyone used these tests before?

I can’t seem to get a real line on these tests? Only squinters & shadows, for context I got a clear blue digital pregnant 1-2 yesterday. But these tests just don’t seem to be dark / obvious in the slightest & it’s making me panic. My clear blue red dye I took is slightly darker than when I originally tested. I got my first faint positive Wednesday last week at 11DPO. Officially missed my period on Saturday x

Issues with controlling parents (grandparents of baby)

💕 Does anyone else feel like their family is taking away the excitement of their first pregnancy? 😔

I'm currently pregnant with our first baby, and what should be one of the most exciting and special times in our lives is starting to feel quite upsetting and stressful because of my parents.

Don't get me wrong, we are incredibly grateful for everything they have offered to buy for our baby and their willingness to help with childcare. However, it feels like every offer of help comes with conditions and an expectation that they get a say in everything.

They told people about our pregnancy before we'd even had the chance to announce it ourselves, which really hurt because that was OUR news to share.

We also explained that there are certain things we would really like to choose and purchase ourselves for our first baby. We even gave them a list of the things that were important to us, only to be met with the response, "Who do you think you are?"

It's beginning to feel like because they're offering financial help and future childcare, they believe they're entitled to make decisions, overstep boundaries and say whatever they like.

This is our first baby, something my partner and I have been so excited to experience together. We want to enjoy choosing things, making plans and experiencing all those special firsts as parents.

Instead, I feel like we're constantly having to defend ourselves and our decisions.

I love my parents, and I genuinely appreciate their generosity, but I don't believe accepting help should mean giving up our right to make decisions about our own child.

I'm also starting to worry about what things will be like once the baby actually arrives if they're already struggling to respect our wishes now.

I feel guilty for being upset because I know we're fortunate to have family willing to help, but at the same time, I feel like our experience of becoming first-time parents is slowly being taken away from us. 💔

Has anyone else experienced this with their parents or in-laws? How did you manage to set boundaries without causing a massive family fallout?

I just want us to be able to enjoy this special chapter of our lives. 🥹💕

Positive or just an indent line???

Does this look positive? I feel like I can see a very faint line!

Does anti depressants and beta blockers affect fertility?

I read in some studies these can effect fertility has anyone found this? I read this.
I’m TTC and for 6 years I’ve been on tablets and scared its effected things