hi! i am a first time mum and was wondering about people’s opinions on royal bournemouth hospital and the midwife care they have received, i am not sure if i would like to give birth in bournemouth hospital as i’ve had horrible care from midwife’s and also from maternity triage!
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I didn’t have a good experience at Bournemouth especially on the post natal ward, I am in the process of making a complaint about it there. Is there somewhere else you’re able to go to instead? Obviously everyone’s experience will have been different so I can only talk from my own x

I had great care from the labour ward and theatre when I went in for an emergency c section at 35 weeks due to sepsis. Me and my little girl were in for 2 weeks.
Having your own ensuite room where dad's can stay is an amazing benefit.
The only negative part I had was when my little girl was discharged from the NICU in to TCU with me they forced me to make sure she could take bottle top ups when she was clearly getting enough breast milk. This had a huge impact on my feeding journey and mental health post partum.
Cannot fault the labour ward, NICU, anaesthetists or surgeon though, they were incredible. Most midwives there were also amazing.

One thing I will say though is every maternity hospital will have negative stories. People shout louder about the negatives but there will be countless positive stories that don't get spoken about at all.

I've given birth twice at Bournemouth hospital, in 2025 and 2026 and I can't fault the care both times. The labour ward is great, the midwives are lovely and it's really clean. I had no issues.
Hey mamas,
The top layer fell off last night and my midwife also said any loose ends I can cut off. I just now saw the spottings in certain areas. Should I be worried?

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Has anyone else experienced pain in this area when sitting and laying on your side.
Feels like a sharp stabbing / pulling and gets worse the longer you’re in that position.
Baby is head down
Thanks! 🙏🏼

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Hi everyone. I’m a first time mama expecting my rainbow baby girl on Christmas Day. I’m currently 33.5 weeks.
The last four or five days I’ve found my tummy feels really uncomfortable and not like it did previously. It feels like baby is pushing or leaning back against the front of my tummy all of the time, so one side feels really full and distended. She’s kicking and moving fine, but I don’t know whether this is just a result of her getting bigger and so feels new, or something else?

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Hi everyone,
I’m hoping to hear from anyone who’s experienced something similar because it’s really frightened me.
I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant and was admitted to hospital after having some fresh red bleeding. It wasn’t a huge amount, but it was definitely more than just a tiny spot. I had all the checks done, stayed in hospital for 24 hours, and thankfully everything with baby was reassuring, so I was discharged.
Since coming home, I’ve had a little more bleeding (just small amounts), which has made me really anxious. The doctors couldn’t tell me exactly what caused it, and all they could say was that sometimes they never find a definite reason.
Has anyone else had unexplained bleeding this late in pregnancy and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy? Did the bleeding eventually stop, or did it come and go? I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences because I’m feeling so worried at the moment. ❤️

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Just been for my last growth scan and now very concerned.
Estimated fetal weight puts baby at 86 percentile
But stomach is 97% and so is femur (thigh bone) at 97%
They’ve said they think my baby is 8lb 12oz already, my last baby was 7lb 6oz
Scared I have potentially 3 weeks left to go 💀
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I’ve just had a sweep at 38 + 5 days and she said I was 1-2cm dilated and could feel babies head but my cervix is still quite thick? Can I hear any outcomes of sweeps please! I’m due to be induced Friday but just desperate to go into labour naturally before then!

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