Managing Emotions

Try to sleep when baby sleeps, u didn’t because I was focused on getting things done. It’s ok if you can’t get to baby as soon as he/she cries. Listen to your mommy instincts and ignore those who “know “ best for your child but don’t know what they are talking about. Take a bath and relax once if you get help. Be sure to eat.

Surround yourself with a great support system, and know that you are going to make mistakes. I have a two year old and a five month old... Just when I thought I'd it together when my first turned 1 I found out I was pregnant again... Talk about overwhelming...

Always remeber that when your child looks in your eyes they see nothinf but pure and unconditional love. They don't care if you haven't Showered in days... If you look a Mess... You're Mommie and that's all that matters!!! Trust your gut... And remeber you are doing the best you can!!!

1. You will read and get a lot of advice. Just take on board what sounds good to you. Different things work for different families.

2. When your baby is born, you spend time getting to know your baby. Learn their hunger cues, tired cues, etc.

3. Be flexible with literally anything you plan. Your baby will dictate a lot. You might plan to have baby sleep in a bassinet and get a baby that will only sleep if you hold them. (If that happens, research the heck out of safe cosleeping). You might plan to swaddle and your baby is Houdini and gets out of every swaddle.