Major issue

This is more about me and my ppd. I have it bad to where I cant control my temper. Im nit sure how to fix this or how to even calm down like I get this black out anger where I cant calm down. I really need advice because it causes majority of myself and my husband's arguments. Any tips on how he may be able to deal with me better would also be helpful. I don't like the strain it puts on him and my kids.