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Older FTMs

I feel like I'm the only person on this app who is part of the older crowd! I just turned 30 and I don't mind hanging out with younger people, but I feel kind of awkward being a FTM on this side of her 20s. Where are my people?

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I am 37😊

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I gotchu, girl. Also 30 😍

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31, gave birth shortly after turning 30. I don't think of it as old. It's the right age for me. I was still in school until my mid twenties and then my husband and I wanted to enjoy time together as a couple before having a family. It's the perfect age for us. We had our fun and can now focus on providing for our children. 😊

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29 here

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It's nice to know I'm in good company!

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I may be too old! Lol
I’m 39 😩

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Girl please. I had my first last year at age 34. 🤣

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33 when I had my little one!

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Girl stop lol I’m turning 30 in March...and I’m new to this mommy thing too. Welcome to the club. 🤗

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38 FTM here.

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turned 30 in january!!

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I feel too young for this app😭😂 I’m 19 yrs old with my first baby on the way!

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I’m 28 so I totally get it

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I’m 30 and my daughter is 11 weeks old !

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I’m right there with you! (32 and first time mom!)

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Girl age just number. FTM has no age limit here .... lol . I’m 30 w/ 11 year old . Look 👀 young asf. Not old ... 🤩

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30 is the new 21!
Just turned 33 and FTM 🙋🏻‍♀️
Trust me, this club is crowded. X

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Not old! I do sometimes feel that the younger moms are more prevalent. I will be 35 in December and have a 10 month old.

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I'm 39 and my son is almost 7

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I'm 31 with 3 kids, oldest is 9 😊

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Hey girl! Feel the same! 30 and just had my Mila on October 8, 👏👏

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I am 39, ftm, with a 1 month old. I understand.

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I'm 33

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I’m 31 now

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Im 31! Have a 10 month old just living life the best we can! Message me if you wanna chit chat!

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You ladies rock! I feel much better.

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Lol I’m 41 so
If you are old what am I?

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I‘m 36 now i feel like Grandma 🙈😃

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Just turned 30 too and am a FTM

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I’m 39 with 4 kids and expecting again.

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I’m 36 😁 and just had my third little boy 💙

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I was 36 when I got pregnant with my first and 37 when I had him this past Jan. Have since turned 38 and hope to have our second before I turn 39 :)

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I’m 42 and have a 2 year old

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I’m 22 but I’m such an old soul 💕

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I was 35 when I had my first son...will be 36 when this little guy is born

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I'm 35 FTM! And 36 with the 2nd.

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Ugh! You call 30 older!? I’m 46! I can’t find any moms who are my age with older kids. Seems like this site is mostly for the younger mommas!

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I’m 37 with a 3yr old and 1yr old!

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Going on 31!!

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32 and waiting for #1 to arrive. :)

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I was 27 When I had my first son and 31 when I had my daughter

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I’m 30 and pregnant with my third boy! Hi mama

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I am 29 and my husband is 55 and we have 3 year old twins.

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I'm a ftm and 32yrs old!

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Hi! I’m 30+ you are not alone.

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I’m 38 with a 17 year old daughter and a 9 year old boy!!!

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I’m 32, I’m a FTM to my little 6 weeks old baby boy!

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I'm almost 29, with 3 children 😊

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35 and mother of 5

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Had my first 6 days before I turned 31. I’m 33 and #2 is due in March 😊

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Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

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