Mom's going through divorce/separation/ breakups

Is anyone else currently separated or considering divorce, but keeps going back and forth about what to do?

I’d really love to connect privately with other women who are in that in-between stage too especially if you’re struggling with indecision, grief, guilt, missing them one minute and wanting to move on the next.

Would be nice to have someone who genuinely gets it, where we can support each other without judgement 🤍 Feel free comment then I'll message you.

So my parents are going through the divorce and my mom put a restraining order on my dad and kicked him out of the They both have a house that’s being sold in the process and my mom seeing all the money apparently they own five years of taxes in the house that they have right now that they’re still paying, but my dad doesn’t want anything to do with it. If my dad doesn’t pay the taxes with my mom does he get in trouble because my mom is saying that he has to help her pay the taxes of five years when they were together they had a company and she never cared about paying the taxes

Retained a lawyer today 😔. I know this is what’s best for me, my son, and our safety. Any supportive words appreciated.

My boyfriend and I have a really rocky relationship. The last bad fight we had. He said that if we separate he's taking our kid from me. He said that he'll move out and take my baby. I am terrified of going to court and doing a custody battle. I'm afraid it'll traumatize our kid. Our kid, he's only 2 years old. I'm afraid that somehow my boyfriend'll get sole custody. I'm terrified that we do shared custody and my baby is neglected when he's at his father's. I pay for daycare for our kid, while I'm working. I work full time. Outside of work I do the majority of the childcare and manage the finances and calendar and cloth diapering and going to baby events with my little guy. The house is in both our names and I have nowhere else to go but I pay for the mortgage by myself. I do everything I can to be attentive and loving but I don't know how to prove that in court. The few times I've had his father watch him, his father is on his phone and my baby cries for a long time and most of the time it's because he had a poopy diaper. And his father keeps saying the baby needs to cry it out. His father says that I spoil our kid and that I'm a bad mother. I'm so scared and I want to leave but I don't want to risk a custody battle with a little one so small. I do my best to have alternative childcare to his father. I think I can do this a few more years. I'm willing to try counseling but at this point, I doubt it will help. I want to know how to prepare to separate and protect my kid. I've heard so many horror stories of custody battles going wrong, or just financially wiping you out. I don't know how to do this.

After 2 years of neglect, abuse and psychological violence from my baby’s father, my body is worn out and I don’t look like myself. I am broken. I look at myself and I don’t like what I see.

I just hope my daughter looks at me and thinks I am beautiful, not this tired, ugly ass mom.