SAHM/WAHM

Hey sooo…. I’m thinking of quitting my job to become a stay at home mom. I have a really good job with benefits but I want to stay home with my baby at least until she is one. Her dad is supportive but he worries about me losing my benefits like health insurance. We are not married so he can’t help. I would door dash but only here and there. What do SAHM do for insurance? The ones that aren’t married?

I just want to hide under a rock or disappear. Ive never felt so unhappy in my life. Yes. Ive had times where I was down. But never like this i have 3 kids in my household and everyday one of them find a way to make me feel like shit. I do everything for everybody in this house. I clean up behind them. I do all the chores all i ask is that they keep their rooms cleans and bring out all the cups. Some nights I go to bed crying because I feel unseen or unheard. I love my little family but I dont think they love me back. My oldest is on the spectrum hes high functioning but this shit is still hard. No amount of talking expressing or showing is getting thru to this kid. Hes so aggressive and rude but when u show him the same in return its an problem. (his siblings) some days I wake up and dont want to be bother but I still get up and handle things. I just wish they could see I show up for them even when I cant show up for myself.

it’s been hard going to work with the schedule my babysitter has and my partners work schedule. i’m only able to work 2 days and sometimes i can’t even go on those days.

any ideas of things i can do from home to earn some money?

I keep seeing on reddit and other places saying wfh with a baby is impossible. I need success stories to bolster my confidence! I just got hired for data entry and its super flexible. I'm hoping this is doable!

HELP!!!

I have found 4 total fleas on two of my three cats. I'm trying to find a soap to bathe my cats tonight. A vet recommended advantage 2 for them. Washing bedding and vacuuming everything. Anything else I might be missing? I've never had this happen.