Pregnancy pillow to donate!

Would love to donate my pregnancy pillow to anyone who would get good use out of it! I’ve also got an open small pack of pampers (tried one and our LO didn’t react well to them), some separately packaged nipple pads, lanolin cream, and a bunch of bottles (some new, some used- good condition). Just need to come pick them up if you want it all:) I’m in Rahway, NJ

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Baby sleeping

Hi mom's, how do you get your baby to sleep a full 8 or 12 hours every night, I'm suffering my baby girl only sleep for a few minutes every night, I mean she'll fall asleep at say for example 8pm and by 8:15 or before she's up again, I'm struggling really bad and I'm so tired and stressed out I need help

Feeling really disconnected from my husband…

We have a 3 year old son. When our son was a newborn my husband prioritized my MILS feelings (was afraid to be honest with her and hurt her feelings). I was recovering from a C section and she was at our house uninvited when we brought our son home. He knew she was there but didn’t call her and tell her to leave. She knew I didn’t want her there when I brought the baby home.
We invited my MIL to meet the baby in the hospital- she did. The only thing that went wrong was she told us she didn’t like the name we chose for him. Also told me not to feed our baby formula because “it’s poison”. My MIL has always been bossy- controlling, uses a lot of guilt and shame to control things. She’s tried to control how we manage finances, where we live, and now how we raise our son.
Basically since my husband didn’t prioritize my feelings as the new mother - and didn’t put us first- I’ve felt unattracted to him. I view my husband like a he’s man child. He has finally realized how difficult his mother can be. But I just have felt so unsupported by my husband and part of me just wants to get away from him. I want our relationship to work but the connection and attraction seems to have vanished. I have a fantasy of meeting a man that’s mature, emotionally intelligent, that I feel taken care of. Just venting and advice welcomed…

21 month sleep regression

Oh my god is a 21 month sleep regression a thing!? Waking every hour crying.
I feel like I could cry 😂 I’m completely exhausted 😩

PJ’s

Do you take your kids/toddler (not an infant) out (park, grocery store etc.) in pajamas?

Breastfeeding Mums - what are you doing at night?

As our babies are starting to sleep longer stretches, I wanted to ask for those breastfeeding how they deal with their milk. I find even if I am still feeding 2 or even 3 times in the night, the time in between is still longer than in the day so I often find I wake up having leaked through my breast pad, bra and top.

The most obvious thing to me would be to pump, but the nice thing about baby sleeping longer is I thought I would be able to sleep longer too! And I know if I get up to pump (having to sit upright, noise of the pump, sorting the milk after etc) that I would have trouble getting back to sleep. Not to mention it would probably wake my husband up too. Curious how others have dealt with this. Are we just accepting being leaky everywhere? 😂

Daycare Diaper Discrepancy

I started sending my son to daycare a couple weeks ago and have supplied them with diapers but it seems like every time we come home, he is wearing a different brand. I’m not upset because he doesn’t have any allergies I just want to know why? Today he came home wearing a diaper very clearly meant for little girls and in a different size but I don’t know all diaper sizes so 2T might be the same as Size 5 in different brands. I would understand if it was because he is out of diapers but I checked before we had left the center and he still had plenty of his own so why does this happen? Should I bring it up? Has this happened to anyone else? I trust the providers very much and have a very good relationship with them so I don’t suspect any malicious intent behind anything just looking for an explanation before I do or don’t bring it up.