PJ’s

Do you take your kids/toddler (not an infant) out (park, grocery store etc.) in pajamas?

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park, no. grocery store, sometimes. if its just errands i’m not worried about what he’s wearing but if i’m taking him somewhere to play i’m gonna make sure he’s dressed appropriately.

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Park, no. Grocery store, yes.

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We might change into PJs when out if we are coming home late or kids will likely fall asleep on the ride home. We usually change in the bathroom or car right before we leave to location to come home.

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Yes. Not all the time; but we also buy pj sets with full intention of wearing them as real clothes sometimes too LOL (adults and children in our house)

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Depends on the time of day, the temperature and generally where you live lol. Personally for me I’ll take my kid out in pjs past 7pm to the store or the park (my building has one for residents only)

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My toddler wouldn’t let me even if I tried 🤣 she knows pajamas are for sleep

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No I dress him and I dress myself. I’m not really a pj girl myself so I dress us both as soon as we ready to step out. The only time I’ve gone to pjs (him or me) is at 5pm to my sisters’ house where I’m just having dinner and chilling at hers all evening but she comes to mine in a robe too lol so it works. Not in public.

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Last summer when my son was 7 or 8ish months I had to walk my little cousin to the bus stop at 7AM. He was in his pj's... it was like a 10 minute walk, he was in the stroller the whole time. I would do that again to run a quick nearby errand.

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Babies/toddlers is fine but now that mine are older no. I seen grown ups wearing pj’s and it just looks dirty/tacky to me. So, I don’t even have my kids walk out the house like that. (Unless it’s pj day for school spirt.)

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Park? No. Grocery store, maybe once in a while right before bed if I forgot we had no milk 😂 he expects milk in the morning when he wakes up but if we are stepping out during the day, I always get him dressed.

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My toddlers in a onesie all the time when it’s cold, no matter where we go, it’s just warmer for her and more comfy. I’m in pajamas too😅🤷🏼‍♀️

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No, the only time they were pjs out the house is if it’s early morning and the doctors call and say “can you get here in 10mins” or If we’re out at a family members house and it getting close to bedtime I’ll change them into their pjs so the can go straight to bed when we get home if they’re fallen asleep in the car

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No lol, my boy knows when it’s time to go out its time to be dressed he literally tells me himself🤣 on a very odd occasion where we’ve driven to the corner shop he’s been in pjs if I couldn’t be bothered to get him dressed for the sake of 5 mins because he won’t even be leaving the car (with dad) but even then he’s not impressed going out in pjs🤣 other than that he’s only put in pjs if we’re going home close to bed time so he can go straight into bed.

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No. We get dressed for the day.

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No. The only thing I do is let my daughter wear pjs after her swimming lesson.

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