Baby sleeping

Hi mom's, how do you get your baby to sleep a full 8 or 12 hours every night, I'm suffering my baby girl only sleep for a few minutes every night, I mean she'll fall asleep at say for example 8pm and by 8:15 or before she's up again, I'm struggling really bad and I'm so tired and stressed out I need help

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Following. 7 months in, shes always been a terrible sleeper, but its just getting worse and it's getting me down. I'm so sleep deprived.

How do we fix it because I really need some rest, I haven't slept in about two years and I'm in need of some good rest

She's 5 months old I do all that sometimes she's awake for hours during the day so I don't know, where can I find that

Can u believe that I had that drops and didn't remember, I just looked and found

How much do u give, I don't got the leaflet smh

Has she always been a bad sleeper? Maybe its the 6 month sleep regression coming in

Ruken@ she's been like this from day one she don't sleep for long

Nicole@ I don't believe it's hunger because I make sure her tummy is full before bed so I don't know

Olivia@ I have to get a new one because it was open but thank u

I think I’ve been lucky but I keep the routine the same as I can within reason. Do u use a next to me or a cot x

At 5 months it’s a tough one as it’s very very normal for them to wake. However the best thing to do is look at daytime sleep / naps and work from there. So what is wake up, how many naps and when, total hours of sleep? What’s the sleep environment and bedtime routine?

Hey
I haven't had my baby yet but a lot of my friends have used Callaroo.uk
They are sleep specialists but not anywhere near as expensive and you get to have a 1-2-1 call with them to discuss your personalised plan apparently. My friend was having awful issues with her 8month old not sleeping (even naps) and they really helped her so might be worth having a look?
Really hope you find a solution soon though 🙏🏻🙏🏻 x

Zhyan@ a cot

Jess@ to be honest I don't have a routine for her

Jen@ thank u

Yeah definately try a little routine , bath, book, bed kind of thing so she starts to learn that once that starts it’s time to wind down xx

I don’t know ur opinions on scream time but I let my little one watch in the night garden x

I do give her baths and play white noise music

Aw that’s lovely , a little bit of reading to her or singing might help too x some babies just don’t sleep well so try not to worry too much x

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All she wants to do is roll onto her front and try crawl off the mat!

I used to be able to distract her by singing and dancing - but now I can’t find anything to distract her and I’m chasing her around her changing mat 😂 and trying to change her backwards lol

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My 8 wk baby always wants to be held. Since he was born he doesn’t like going down in his crib at all, and even though we’ve tried everything ( I mean everything! The clothes wth my scent on them, holding him for 20 mins into a deep sleep then putting him down, swaddles) he wakes up and cries as soon as he’s down. This is the same everywhere, I can put him in his rocker or play mat for around 20 mins when all the stars align and he’s in a good mood. I’m scared I’m building a stick for my own back and that he will always be clingy. Anyone gone through something similar?

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Sorry in advance for the long post...Bit of context, our baby girl is 7months and was in the NICU for 5 weeks. She has always been a terrible napper/sleeper. Bedtime routine used to be bath, boob, bottle (we were triple feeding with ebm to help gain weight), rock & put down. She would fuss a little and we might have to rock her again but then she would sleep for a few hours. We started off by putting her down for 1 nap a day and worked up, but she never managed every nap going down.
She now exclusively nurses, and getting her down for bed is much easier as she just breastfeeds side-lying in bed and once she's done I place her in her cot and she sleeps much better at night.
The issue is, at about 4/5months, she started refusing to be held when breastfeeding most of the time when we were at home. She gets very distracted and will fuss and cry and wriggle away even if she is hungry, and unless we are out of the house she will only breastfeed and nap when lying next to be on my bed. She will wake up instantly if I try to put her into her cot or if I try to get up and leave so for 3 or 4 naps a day I am feeding her and then just stuck in bed. Sometimes, its heaven because I have a great excuse for extra rest but it would be amazing to be able to get some free time back, get some housework done and socialise (if we have guests over, I feel rude and a bit silly just staying upstairs as no-one seems to understand). I have tried to avoid doing it because I didnt want it to become a habit, but she will flat out refuse to nurse any other way, and im worried about worsening the aversion if I keep trying. She will occasionally feed lying on a pillow on the sofa if I lie down too, but again she gets very distracted. Would rather not go back to rocking as it used to take me and my partner forever to get her to sleep and multiple attempts, and I dont mind continuing to feed her on my bed at night as it seems to be working well but I'd love to be able to get her to nap alone for even 1 or 2 naps a day. She will nap in the car and in her pram if she is tired enough, but will wake up as soon as we stop so it doesnt reslly give me any free time back and also means she is taking less milk and then sleeps worse at night.
Anyone else been in the same boat? Or have any advice? I'm desperate at this point 🥺

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Girls, my little girl is 14 months old now and is struggling in her cot as we co slept from December right threw till about 2 weeks ago, I’ve found that when I put my pillow I don’t use in which by the way is quite thin and a lot firmer than the rest she seems to sleep a lot better but I’m terrified of her sleeping with one I’ve bought her a toddler one and again she wakes up constantly should I leave her without one and get up or is she ok with my pillow? I’m worried she’s still to young

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My baby is 4 months old, and for the past few weeks she has been waking almost every hour at night. She wants to breastfeed and then goes straight back to sleep.

During the day, she usually only naps for around 30 minutes. If I rock her back to sleep, sometimes she will continue sleeping, but other times she just stays awake.

What am I doing wrong? How can I change this, if it’s even possible? I’m exhausted. 😭

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Girls helppp I’m scared for the sleep regression. FTM my daughter is 3 months old.
Shes overall a good sleeper now. We’ve had a few bad nights which is giving me a tester for the 4 month sleep regression and the anxiety it’s giving me I’m scared 😭😭😭
I do all the night wake ups through the night due to my partner working long days so it will all fall on me!