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Hello! I’m part of quite a few groups on here, but I thought I’d create one in the hopes of making a little mums coffee club or something.

So I shall introduce myself - I’m Christina, I’m 26 and have a 4 year old girl and a 12 week old boy. I’m currently on maternity leave but work for the ambulance service. I’m not the most outgoing of people so I’m really putting myself out there right now!

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Hey! I’m 30 and a first time mum of little Etta who is 7 weeks. Don’t have any mum friends in Horsham so would love to meet up. Well done for putting yourself out there - it’s daunting isn’t it! 💗

Hey Ladies! I’m also 26 and the proud mama of three wonderful children. My youngest being just two months 🥰 Would love to meet up with some Mum friends in Horsham as like many of you fairly new to the area and would love to meet new people. 💖

Hello! I’m 29 and a first time momma to 9 week old Ted. 🥰 Currently on Mat leave too but back to work full time in Jan 😭
Always up for a coffee and a chat!

Hi all, I'm 30 and mum to 2 girls a 3 year old and a 4 month old. Would love to meet new mums as I really struggled when my eldest was a baby.

Hi, this group just came up on my suggested so thought I’d join. I live about 20 min drive from horsham.
I’ve got a 6 year old boy who’s just gone into year 2 at school and a 11 week old little girl xx

Hi all, and thank you Kerry for the invite 😊
I'm 37 next month 😱, and I have two boys. Aiden is 3 years old and Ryan is 2 months old. Also not the most outgoing but really like having lovely people to meet up with as it makes such a difference to get out and about on mat leave 🥰

Hi all 👋 thank you for the invite Christina. I’m mum to 4, October is birthday so they will be 9yo, 7yo, 2yo and 7m. My 2 yo goes to nursery a few times a week so I have a couple of baby only days. I’m new to Horsham, moved in August but hubby is from 15 mins away. Looking forward to meeting some local mums so I don’t feel isolated

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Baby’s surname

My partner messaged other women during my first trimester when I was signed off sick and struggling apparently I didn’t give him enough attention; since then he’s been lying constantly about anything and everything and even admitted he has a problem. He’s moved out and I’m 6 months pregnant already a single parent and juggling it all alone.
Of course he’s welcome to all appointments, the birth, and can be as involved as he likes but am I wrong in now considering taking his surname off the list and keeping mine?

He believes this gives him less of a connection to his son and makes him less of a dad?

Maternity allowance...

Hey everyone, I'm currently 31 weeks today and after hounding my HR/Payroll dept they finally got back to me and because I moved NHS trusts during early pregnancy I'm not eligible for SMP.
They said they'll need to give me a SMP1 to apply for maternity allowance..
has this happened to anyone else?
To make things worse the lady is on AL for two weeks now and no one can send me the form so I can get the ball moving... as I hear it's quite a lengthy process????
Is anyone else going through similar? Xx

Traumatic Birth & Postpartum/Best Friend

Looking for someone to talk to. I need a friend so badly. Motherhood has been absolutely so isolating and lonely. I had a really difficult labour and postpartum has been really hard. If anyone is up to chatting I’d really love a friend.

Am I in the wrong?!

My partner has asked if he can go play darts and out drinking tonight… I’m 38 weeks pregnant and we have a 7 year old. I never feel comfortable with him going out as he usually comes back in a state. I never stop him going but I just feel like he isn’t thinking about me. I dunno is it just me and my hormones?!

Does anyone ever respond on this app?

I need someone to talk to, I’ve been stressing out with my marriage and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’m in California and would love to make some friends to hang out with. It’s really hard to make friends at my age but it’s worth a shot. I have 4 kids and sahm. I need to go out and get away once in a while :)

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My step daughter is graduating 8th grade in about a month. I want to surprise her with a gift. She lives with her mom. So I would be mailing it or through Amazon or similar. Any ideas? I don’t have a lot to spend but I want to get her something great. She’s such a good kid and unfortunately we are going through a lot as a family right now.