Pre prepared lunches

What are some pregnancy safe pre prepared lunches that k can take to work? I don’t have time to make fresh at lunch time but can reheat where necessary at work. Thanks 😊

in our community

Upset

I’m really upset right now and I need someone to tell me if I’m overreacting. We have been spread so thin lately with money as my child’s father has been awaiting his new job to start. I work hard everyday, make sure bills are paid and make sure my son eats with hardly $1 left when it’s all said and done. My son wanted pizza today and although I made one I realize we had ran out of shredded mozzarella. As a quick fix I put a cheese slice on my homemade pizza to make it work. Next thing I know I’m being griped at and told I need to “think before I act” because sliced cheese looks disgusting. I honestly did what I could….. that hurt me so bad. It may not be that deep to some but what an asshole to come say that to me when you’ve been unable to contribute for months.

Baby dads

Am I in the wrong my son was meant to be going supervised contact today with his dad and because my little one tried to bite me and also slap me I told him no that he’s not going then he was like what he’s done I told him that I’ve told him off and doesn’t need his dad too as I’m primary carer but he’s adamant that he should be able to go I made it clear when he does things like that he doesn’t get reward like soft play or park my child is very hyperactive I tried to tell him that boundaries need to be a thing and he doesn’t understand that. I’m not going to reward my son now if he thinks it’s okay to hit me then go places like soft play because he will continue to think he can get away with it then get a reward am I in the wrong or what my lo is 2

Just needed to write this out…

I don’t think my husband quite understands how I’m feeling.
I am four months postpartum with our second (our eldest is 3.5) and we’ve just not had a great day week of sleep for anyone…

There’s been alot happening with wakes up with both kids, sickness, clingyness and parental preference (swapping constantly) as well as hospital visits with our youngest due to UTI and kidney reflux which we are managing with the hospital.

Last night broke me…I think i got a total of 2 hours sleep across the whole night, my husband took both girls to his parents for the day so I could rest which I did…but I’ve woken up from a nap just still feeling drained…I can’t explain it, it’s just like no amount of sleep will fix how depleted I feel…

I’m so tired…

Husband going back to work

My husband goes back to work on Wednesday and I'm panicking. We have a four week old and when my husband has had to leave us for a few hours here and there it's like baby knows I'm scared and he ends up having a really bad time, screaming and crying, won't settle. I've lost all my confidence on being able to be his mum and make him feel safe and calm when I'm alone.

My husband has been our rock while home, he does all the cooking and cleaning, he reminds me to stay hydrated and brings me water and anything else I need when nap trapped. He's been incredible so I'm terrified of him not being here for 10 hours a day Monday to Friday. We have no family and our friends all work full time Monday to Friday too so there's no one that can come over to help me. When he's not here I feel so useless and helpless, how do you all cope?

Friendship Differences

Hi ladies 🤍💖

I’m a stay at home mum to 3 kids, and I have a friend who has a 9 month old. We don’t often talk parenting, and connected through this app more as just individuals outside of being mums. However as people do, as a parent I tend to align myself with other parents who believe the same things as I do when raising kids. We have recently started talking parenting and I’ve found out that since her baby was tiny she just sits him in front of the TV all day. I’m not against TV, my older children watch it, however I personally don’t think babies should watch it all day, it just doesn’t align with my parenting at all. Each to their own, however it’s made me want to distance our friendship as I feel like we aren’t as each others person as I thought we were. Do you think it’s wrong to do this? Is there a way I could approach distancing myself where she won’t feel like I’m judging her?

I’m doing mentally well for the first time in ages and I really only want to surround myself with people who are my sort of people ☺️

MIL and newborn

I came to see MIL cuddling and rocking to sleep my 5 week old son. I’ve been having a difficult time in my breastfeeding journey and trying to nurse him whenever possible as opposed to giving him bottles of formula. I feel my need for privacy and alone time with son is not being respected. She’s here to stay for an entire week under the guise of helping us while she secretly gets to hold my son and take over mommy duties and feed him formula. I’m low on sleep and really trying to tank it on my own with a half-present husband who did nothing but play video games after work and late into the night. He also doesn’t pick up after himself nor does he communicate boundaries properly with his mother. I told him clearly that I didn’t want people around at this time. He seems to not care and only wants to do what he wants to do. I’m considering ending breastfeeding and being a hands off parent. Like not caring about my son and walking out on them eventually. Thoughts? 💭