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Calling all cat Mumma’s

So I’m currently 11 weeks so have ages to go but always find my self thinking how my kitten is going to react to me bringing a baby home, we live in a small 1 bed flat with a study big enough to be a small bedroom and worry that it’s going to be to small for them both to live happy, anyone have any tips my kitten will be 1 year old when my baby is born

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My kitties warmed right up to my baby. They were a little skeptical at first. They weren’t mean at all, but they would just keep their distance. Now they’re besties. The only thing that I struggled with was them jumping in all the baby gear, but I just lined everything with aluminum foil and they stopped.

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Give your kitty plenty of attention and when the new arrival of baby comes home, introduce them and continue to give your kitty the same amount of attention as before so they don't get jealous. Cats usually warm up right away to a new member so your cat will probably be just fine.

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There’s a section on the cats protection website that’s got some good information about introducing a cat to a baby, I’ve followed a few of the steps on there. I’m due next month though so can’t say whether it worked yet or not!

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Cats hate change. We’ve had real problems with kitty anxiety in the run up to baby being born. They hated the spare room being changed into a nursery and started spraying everywhere and scratching everything to make themselves feel more secure. I would say start making small changes as early as possible, way before the baby comes, to get them used to things. The last thing you want is for everything to suddenly change when baby arrives. You can also play crying baby sound effects before baby arrives so they don’t freak out when the baby cries 😂

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My youngest cat is almost exactly 1 year older than my baby and he’s been okay, he was a bit miffed at not being able to sleep in our room anymore so maybe kick him out in a few months so he doesn’t associate it with baby. He does try and play with my little ones toes so he is the one I need to watch out for most (I have 2 older cats and a dog) but other than that he loves hanging about with his brother xx

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My kittens were fine with my son apart from them sterling his toys

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Our cats are 5 years olds and we live in a 500sqft 1br, so it's a little bit tight now with our 5 month old. The cats generally keep away from the baby, I think they are afraid of her 😅

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I would check out www.FamilyPaws.com - it's mostly about dogs, but they have tips for cats as well, especially if you call their hotline.

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I have two cats and they absolutely LOVE My daughters. (Newborn and 1 year old) I do make sure to watch them and keep them apart at night because the cats like to party the most at night🥲🤣 make sure baby is careful with the cat but the worse my cat has done was run away lol and run when they see her but they're friends now

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I had a 1 year old kitten she used to sleep on my big belly never left me alone. Baby has come and she’s not bothered by him, she won’t go near him but doesn’t mind him. She did give birth to 3 kittens 6 weeks after I gave birth so we went maternity together 🤣 she made a little less fuss then I did about it though 🤣

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We have a very grumpy 18 year old cat, who has attacked most of our friends just for walking in to the house! 😂 Our 11 month LG has managed to grab her a few times (we always try & keep her away, just those rare occasions she’s managed to get to her) & she hasn’t done a thing. We honestly can’t believe how good she is with her, she’ll happily chill in the same room as her (when she’d go for strangers! 😂). Your cat may surprise you 🥰😊

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We have a 4yr old Tabby. He hasn't really paid attention to the baby. He smelt his feet, well still smells his feet every so often but he just walks by him and doesn't pay much attention. Baby born is making 5mths. I've let him touch the cats fur and he's made eye contact. I guess when baby is moving about more the cat will be more interactive. But he's also a fat lazy cat, picture Garfield 😂😂, so I don't know.

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I was worried about bringing a baby home to my 2 year old cat. He was very nervous at first but over time, he came around to love our son. He is so patient with him. He never scratches or bites him (which I was worried about because he does with other people). Our son is a toddler now and we are teaching how to be soft and gentle with our cat 💙

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Cancelling Easter…

So my step son (11) lives with us full time we’ve started with an issue of him stealing little stuff from school, taking his brothers clothes from his mums here without anyone knowing ect but now
He’s also got the habit of taking chocolate and crisps out the kitchen to the point of he’s eating all my 1 year olds snacks like the 6month+ wafers and then he’s got no snacks. I’m buying loads of stuff to last us the month and he’s going through them within less then a week 🫠 (he never gets told no to snacks either unless it’s just before a meal then he gets told to wait until after hes ate)
He has now gone through all the chocolate we hid for Easter that was also his two little brothers and he’s gone through the stuff my mum brought round for them. So now iv got just over a week with hardly any money to try and get all the Easter stuff back. We’ve sat and spoke about it and why he feels like need to just take and we get a “i don’t know” or “it’s just snacks”

My thing is should I re buy him Easter stuff or leave it as a “you’ve already had you Easter early behind our backs” he’s not missing out completely because he has Easter at his mums but I feel like there’s nothing more we can do other then put locks on cabinets so he can’t get in them but that’s just stopping him from getting to the thing he wants not necessarily him learning 🤷🏻‍♀️
My partners just in that “can’t be arsed” “just replace it” where we have 1 child together and 2 step children and a baby on the way so just constantly going out and replacing stuff really isn’t happening ☹️ he’s agreeing with not giving him anything for Easter but I feel guilty about it but he has teqnically had his Easter + more…

We have also spoken to his mum about it and she just says she has locks on the doors and she did it as a kid and laughs about it which just feels like shes validating what he’s doing.

Sorry for the rant just wanted to see other people opinions and views as I feel so guilty to cancel Easter for him but at the same time we don’t have the money to re buy everything he’s gone through 🫠

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I went for brunch with a new mum friend, both our little boys are 7 months. My LO would not sit at and tbh he rarely does, he had just had a feed and nap, I also offered him a banana which he had half of and convinced him to play with multiple toys but he either wanted to bounce on my lap or for me to walk around with him and eventually got cranky/whingy. I wasn’t able to finish my food. The other LO was sitting calmly the whole time and chewing on his teether. I even offered my LO a teether. Am I doing something wrong, am I spoiling him by picking him up constantly if he’s not crying and just whinging 😅

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Weaning

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My daughter has a medical condition which causes her to be sent home from nursery frequently. So it isn't unusual for me to be working, parenting, cleaning and cooking all in one day.

I'm exhausted. I can't have any more dependants leave because I'm only a couple of more incidents away from a disciplinary. We aren't in a financial position for me to quit work either.

The world wants more babies, but isn't prepared to support mothers or primary parents. It sucks.

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Is yogurt enough breakfast for a 7month old?

I'm really struggling with weaning and feeling like I'm failing my child.

I've always just been a cereal for breakfast skip lunch kinda person.

If you have advice or easy ideas please drop them below.

I'm also struggling with PPD so I'm really struggling with motivation when it comes to cooking etc.

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