lol whoops
I couldn’t find my new lingerie-ish nightgown I bought for this weekend, after our anniversary stay. Seemed it never made it back in our bags. We always double check the room, we thought well enough. Well, Hubs decides to watch our videos made in the room back. He literally finds the exact moment I fling it behind the couch on video.
WELL THATS EMBARRASSING FOR HOUSEKEEPING TO FIND.
Even more so because I’m an elite member and they upgraded us, gave us a bottle of wine for the anniversary stay, etc. I’m mortified but have no one to also laugh with it about. So here I am 🫶🏻😂
Intimacy time
I became a Christian shortly after I met my husband, and I know the Bible talks about how our bodies are not our own once we are married. But my husband wants intimacy every single night, and sometimes it becomes overwhelming for me. I feel like he uses religion against me because he will quote scripture or say things like, “You know I’m hurting, I need it,” and if I say no, he often becomes irritated or makes it into a big issue.
I’m struggling to understand what is healthy and biblical in marriage and on top of that I have severe anxiety and MDD (major depressive disorder.)Am I still allowed to say no to intimacy with my husband when I’m emotionally or physically overwhelmed, or does that mean I’m committing a sin? My husband is Christian he grew up Christian