Ayuda!! Cama o cuna?

Hola mamis estoy en un dilema mi bebe tiene un año desde el primer dia duerme conmigo en mi cama pero ya no cabemos los 3 (con mi esposo) nunca le compre cuna pero estoy pensado en comprar una camita de un metro y pegarla a mi cama para que comience a quedarse el en su espacio y que duerma ya en su camita....
Cuéntenme sus experiencias soy primeriza y no se que mas puedo intentar para que el duerma ya en su propio espacio
Las leo saludos!!!

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Te cuento me paso igual tu misma situacion mi pareja y yo y el bebe no alcanzamos en una cama asi q el tomo la iniciativa de comprarse uno para el soolo hoy en dia el duerme en su cama y mi bebe conmigo que mejor dormir con tu bb ves cm duerme en lo personal me encanta estar junto a el siento q esta protejido o lo tengo serca a mi y no lo pierdo de vista eso me pone tranquila x lo que duermo tranquila tambien ,ahora me facilita mucho dsrle lechita cuando quiere o se despierta

Me parece excelente tu idea ya de un año ya duerme por si solo
Ya agarra la teta sola así igual tu duermes más tranquila ( no pensando en que le puedes pegar) ya poco a poco lo vas alejando de tu cama

si verdad ya 3 no cabemos jajaja que bueno q ya resolviste pero una pregunta con tu pareja no te afecta dormir separados

si en eso estoy de comprar la camita para que el bebe sepa que es su espacio porque asi duermo mejor en mi cama siempre cuidándolo de cerca 😊😊😊

mmm no , lo bueno que el entiende , y bueno cm es su primer bebe lo tiene consentido no deja q nada le pase el fue el de la idea juju pero a mi parecer cm lo veo ya se acostumbro a dormir solo al igual que yo cn mi bb

jejeje igual es min primer bebe y por eso mi esposo no lo quiere dejar en la cama solo conmigo siempre quiere estar ahi jaja

asi es

Nosotros igual unimos una cama de 1 metro y ahi cabemos perfectamente... 🥰

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