Caught Boyfriend watching porn
A few weeks ago when my boyfriend got in the shower I heard moaning but I thought I was tripping
…. Then I heard it again another time
I asked him if he was watching porn & he said no
I’m 12 weeks pp and we had sex for the first time a week ago
I was in my head the whole time
Eventually he just stopped in the middle bc he “assumed” I wasn’t enjoying it
Which I was but I was overthinking EVERYTHING
Today I went in the bathroom while he was we in the shower to get my brush
I could see him holding up the phone thru the shower curtain
I pulled the shower curtain back out of curiosity
& there he was watching porn 🤣🤣🤣
I guess I can’t be mad bc I have been MIA in the sex department. But it’s just like damn 🥺🥺🥺
Lol idk how to feel.. just sad that things are not the same before pregnancy, disappointed that my man has to depend on porn now and embarrassed that I caught him…
& it’s just like why lie?
It’s awkward af in the house now.
What would u do ?
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Personally, I wouldn’t get offended, porn is just porn to me but everyone is different. He shouldn’t of lied about it but maybe he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. I think you should try and speak to him about it and how you feel etc if it has hurt your feelings. Like your said your only 12 weeks PP things will get better
I agree. Porn is just porn, nothing compared to the real thing (you 🤍) he’s probably in his own head about you not being pleased. I’d talk about it with him.
Sex wasn’t great for me at first either. I told him to please himself lol
He probably lied out of embarrassment.
I would talk to him and tell him how much you want him. Honestly you saying he stopped mid act sounds like he was also completely in his head about this. Worrying you didn’t even enjoy it, that’s a hard way to feel. Tell him how much you want him, initiate, send him sexy texts. Sometimes when my man isn’t treating me how I want I just gotta start treating him how I want to be treated. If I want to feel wanted I let him know how wanted he is
You should be totally honest and put it out there about how you’re feeling and I think (and hoped if this was my man) that he would hopefully feel better from hearing my honesty and realize he’s not the only one in his head about sex and having it be like it was before pregnancy. And in a way hopefully that would bring you guys even closer and eliminate the awkwardness and you two can go however fast or slow you both want to practicing (😉 lol) to get it like it was before or maybe reach a new normal with sex now that you guys are parents. 🤍 and be kind to yourself and patient with your healing, I’m on the same page with trying to do the same 🤞🏽🥺💕
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