Pacifier usage at night

Hey mamas,

We've sleep trained our 7.5 month old baby and she'll sleep in her own room about 10-11 hours uninterrupted overnight - almost. She'll sometimes wake up and cry when the pacifier isn't in her mouth. She'll search for it but her cries get worse over a few minutes. We are generally awake by that point so one of us parents will go out the pacifier close to her hand and rush out of the room.
When we put her down for her 2 naps + bedtime, we've started to show her the pacifier and drop it in the crib. She's getting used to searching around for it and finding it.
I guess I have 2 questions: 1) is it ok for her to be reliant on the pacifier to fall asleep? And 2), how could we safely keep the pacifier close to her all night so she knows that it's right there?

Thanks in advance!

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