Arent mums meant to stick together?

My baby is now 6 months old, im a bit of an older mum (38) so lots of my friends have older children. I have tried various things such as this app, sensory classes etc etc… to meet mums with similar aged babies. But i seem to be the mum on my own. I have even tried different classes but now walking into territories where they all no each other and again im sat on my own. I can handle that but i cant handle my baby being outcasted with me. I’m starting to question my looks, personality and becoming so insecure that i question my other half with ridiculous low self esteem questions about myself! I suppose i wanted to no i wasnt alone and for any women out there treating anybody like that to no how it feels. Its starting to become very lonely as i have not had this problem before now

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My little boy is only just over a month but I’m only a message away if you’d like someone to talk too… I’m a first time mum too and don’t really know anyone around here

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Hey I'm 38 and I have a 10 month old little boy, give me a message and we can arrange to meet for a coffee etc.

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I stay at home as I'm worried to be the same. Sat on my own

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Hey I'm 33 with a 4 month old, if you want to chat! X

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I'm 40 and expecting my second d in Dec...got a 3.year old....always happy to meet new mums x

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