Loosing connection

Hows your nonsexual intimacy?

Ask him what his problem is and tell him you’re a woman with needs too. Save all that waiting for when your postpartum and can’t have sex for 6 weeks

Maybe try other forms of ‘sex’. Oral and toy play might not be as connecting as penetration sex, but might help you fee more connected. Be open about how you’re feeling, your want for sex, and maybe share ways with him that he can pleasure you that he might feel more comfortable doing.

If you’re both still wanting to be sexually active then you just need to find something you’re both comfortable with and still feels good. If it helps also, maybe bring him to a midwife appointment with you and he can ask the midwife his questions or they might be able to speak him through the fact sex is safe xx

Me and my partner feared that we were hurting our little girl, and as long as you are not bleeding and you feel fetal movement afterwards. You’re all good. And if it’s uncomfortable, switch positions. Trust you can make sex haveable still

Why are you getting sex advise from a mom group, this is pathetic just get a toy it’s the same ending

My partner and I don’t have sex when I’m pregnant because we both don’t want to. He’s always been worried of hurting me or baby (even tho he knows it’s very rare to do that) and I find sex super sore and uncomfy when pregnant.

We both miss it but pregnancy isn’t forever and it will come back.

As others have said - what’s your non sexual intimacy like? Relying on this heavily will help just now..

Relationships have periods like this, you could develop auto immune diseases, cancer etc things a lot worse than will impact sex and this is why non sexual intimacy is crucial. If your relying on sex to feel loved by your partner you will resent him when he says no, which also isn’t okay x