Just a little venting

I got this app to meet people and schedule play dates because I have no other children and don't know anyone with kids. I really want to expose my baby to others around same age but over 8 months using this, tons of conversations, and they all end up being one-sided and then I stop responding. There are play date fb groups, but all events for ages 4yr+. We've been to different libraries that have baby events, playgrounds, etc. and haven't met anyone with babies.
Second off topic vent: I asked for recommendations for a hairstylists in my area and I got a few, all recommended messaging on Instagram, so I did, and weeks later no responses.

I'm so lost. Where is everyone and what are they doing?? Losing my mind over here. 😭

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I'm pretty bad at not responding, and I dont mean to. I'm just usually not one for conversations and I'm trying to be better at it but it's hard especially since now 8 month old son is teething alot, very clingy and attached to my hip 24/7 basically. I just never really have the time to respond and I feel so bad and awful but I'm trying to be better at responding.

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Trying to make mom friend is so hard. I’ve been trying to get walking groups together, post hey we’re going to play here today if anyone wants to join and nothing. I get we’re all busy with kids cuz same but if you’re going to the park anyways, let’s all go. My mom always told us if you want friends you have to be a friend so I’m just gonna keep putting myself out there until it clicks with the right person.

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Hey laddies. I’m 27 year olds I’m a mom of 2 girls. I’m currently 3 months pregnant. I want to make some new friends I get bored I realize I don’t have any more friends. I stay in Tennessee. Also I’m a Virgo. Let’s be friends 🥰

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

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Feeling stupid

I got drunk last night and had unprotected sex he didn’t cum in me but I’m ovulating
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31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

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I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant and my partner can’t and hasn’t come anywhere near me sexually for about 12 weeks or so now. We tried but he got put off saying he was worried he was hurting the baby. I’ve spoken to him about this trying to tell him he can’t and he’s no where near, I’ve sent him email links I’ve had through on newsletters. My libido is through the roof and I’m worried we will drift apart if we don’t have aex again soon.

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