Don’t know what to feed my baby

Hello , we introduced solids to my baby when she was 6 months and everything was going well, she would eat what we would. Now baby hit 12 months and she is refusing to eat fish pasta rice veggies meat anything that we offer really, I am desperate because even thought people are saying not to worry as long as she’s taking fluids I am still very worried.

I don’t know if this is temporary as she’s teething and she might be going through a lot in herself.

What can I do so my baby gets all the proteins and nutrients that she needs? Can some people share their Instagram if they have pages dedicated for their baby meals

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Fruit or yoghurt

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that’s all she accepts as well as porridge , overnight oats and baby biscuits

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Is it because of the heat or teething?

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I have no idea she used to eat everything we gave her , and now she’s become very selective , I think it’s teething

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My LG used to do this every time she was teething she just wanted things like yogurt etc that was easy to eat. Hopefully it is just temporary and LO with be back to normal soo.
Just a little thing that I have found helpful with my 2 when teething; puree some fruit/veg and freeze into ice cubes then give to them in a food/feeding dummy. It helps numb their gums, gives them someting to chew AND gets some food into them x

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You can add things to the items she does eat to boost nutrition. Hemp, chia, flaxseeds, homemade protein powder etc

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