Anyone else still waiting for the apparent 2nd trimester horniness?

Me and my partner have always had great sex.

During the sicky period of my 1st trimester I couldn’t think of anything worse. (Still had sex and enjoyed it)

Then going into 2nd trimester I was quite excited about this apparent horniness you’re meant to get! But it’s no where to be seen and I’m 17 weeks.

A bigger issue is that I’m INSANELY sensitive to the point of it scares me going into foreplay and sex. My partners really patient but it’s an absolute joke how gentle he needs to be because I just cannot handle it!

Lil bit body conscious being pregnant but that’s not a major deal.

I’d just like us to take the baby free opportunity whilst we can.

Anyone else

1. Still waiting for the ole preggo horn
2. Insanely sensitive and not in a good way

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1 & 2….I totally feel you. Desparately waiting for the gooood hormones to kick in, I thought I was there the other night but my other half had the start of a cold so it was off the cards quicker than it was on the cards 😭🤣 I’m hoping it will kick in soon, all my friends talk about how difficult it is once baby is here 🙈

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I was sooooo horny on my last pregnancy and we were more sexually active than ever but this one I’m not. I wouldn’t say I have a suppressed libido but it’s just like meh. I’m never in the mood but not put off by the idea and happy to do it whenever he’s in the mood. I’m 18+2. Weird how different it can be

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In regards to the sensitivity, I’m not super sensitive but I feel like the angles that worked before are just not comfortable. It’s like my vagina inside has changed angles and I need to do different positions then before 😅 sorry tmi

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The sex drive is a coin flip, it doesn't happen in all pregnancies and in some, you lose the ability to even orgasm. Every pregnancy is unique.

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