Postnatal depression

Got officially diagnosed with having PND today. It took me 3 months to finally admit I needed to confront it.
Been referred for a postnatal talking therapy group and have been put on antidepressants. Feel really disappointed in myself - I haven’t been on antidepressants in about 4/5 years and I never wanted to feel like this again. Feeling like a real letdown of a parent. I love my baby so much, I’m so disappointed in myself 😞 just needed a place to vent x

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Sleep!!

Our little girl at 10 weeks just slept from 730pm to 430am. She fell asleep on her dad and in bringing her upstairs at 10pm she was still fast asleep so decided as she was fed just before that to leave her until she stirs. She’s usually a good sleeper on the first stint of the night with atleast 6/7 hours but tonight she’s gone 9! Besides a little leakage as I’m exclusively breastfeeding I have no concerns. Would this one off affect my milk supply? For context when she woke she fed for 10 mins which is average for her and was content/ didn’t seem to be struggling.

Quick PSA

Don’t be a fool like me! Before you run upstairs to have a quickie with your husband make sure your baby monitor receiver is turned off so the whole rest of your house doesn’t hear ur shenanigans. 🫠🫠🫠

Constant crying in the mornings

I need help I'm literally losing my mind with my 16 month old I literally don't know what to do I'm physically going crazy I feel like I can't do this anymore I suffer from fibremielga and cfs and my life is so so hard and it just feels like it continues to get harder I know what she's crying for but I comfort her and give her what she's crying for just to shut her up and she still continues to cry my older boys was not like this and people say it's girls but that doesn't help me the pressure on my chest is like a elephant sitting on me I have no friends or family so no help so here I am.

Baby not sleeping

Baby is 4 weeks old, last night he didn't sleep for literally one second unless he was on one of us. Clean nappy, fed more than enough (formula), burped well, made sure he was in deep sleep before transferring to next to me... awake within seconds. All day today he has been awake but not crying / fussy, just awake. And now the same as last night, awake and crying as soon as I put him down. I'm exhausted! What is going on?!

Cleaning girls privates

My baby is 3 months old, I noticed she was red in between her lady parts. Which would make sense as to why she didn’t want to be sat and kept straightening up her body ☹️ I cleaned with warm water and sudocream.

Mammas with girls, what’s the best wipes? Or do you just use warm water and a cotton pad? How do I keep her little area red free? Does she need a bigger size nappy also? Any advice welcome!

Footless pajamas

Why do sleepers become footless at 12 months?! Do they really regulate body better? Are you still putting them in sleep sacks? Using socks? Or giving a blanket? ((Room ranges in the 70s))