Iron infusion

I’ve got to have a iron infusion and I’m a bit nervous about it! I was wondering if anyone else has had one and how did you feel after it?

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I had one the other day, make sure that you aren't dehydrated it took 7 attempts to get the cannula in. It was fine though, only took about 20 mins once everything was sorted. I was tired after but I didn't have any side effects. Hope it all goes smoothly and you feel better after x

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I had one a couple months ago! Actually infusion went really smoothly, no problems at all. For a few days afterwards I did feel a bit grim, just shaky and light headed mainly. I've had them before and never had side effects but apparently they can happen.
They didn't last long and I felt I started to have more energy within two weeks. Definitely worth it!

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Im in the same boat! But I never ate meat during nor did I take iron supplements. As soon as I learned about my low iron in pregnancy I started taking and eating meat…. Getting re tested before infusion.

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Mine is booked for Wednesday. Feeling a bit nervous!

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I’ve just had my second one today went well whole thing lasts about 15-20 mins but you have to stay for a bit after just so they can check you over xx

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Oh wow they gave you 2? I thought if it didn't improve you have to have a blood transfusion

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Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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