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Hi since found out pregnant I feel so alone my fella not been there or very supportive tbh I'm happy about my baby but I have been snappy but he don't understand I'm hormonal scared but he says I just moody I don't know what do xx

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Don’t worry especially if it’s your first baby my partner was the same but now he does love our boy and plays with him … it takes men longer than us females to get into their head they are going to be a parent and what it means to be a parent … we have the long hall we grow them, feed them, nurture them and they aren’t even in the world yet… we have that connection with our babies from the get go but dads have to try a bit harder … just have a conversation with him for all you know he could be more scared than you about becoming a parent

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thank u huni just him bein bit ov arse haha x

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