Husband went to sisters twitter (OF)

So.. my sister has a OnlyFans.. this twitter promotes it.. you can see it all. I went to go see it.. I have seen all of my sister… ALL.. and her husband.
Now we are okay with porn in the relationship… because his job.. he’s gone a lot. I’m okay with it.. he’s okay with it…
But… when we talked about my sisters OF and twitter.. I said.. one rule.. I AM not okay with him.. getting off to my sister..
(They have never met).
I don’t know! It feels different… knowing the person.. and the fact it’s my SISTER. It feels like he cheated.. though he didn’t? If that makes sense..
I don’t know if I can move past this.. I haven’t brought it up (found out today).
How would you feel?

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That’s a major boundary being crossed and to me it would feel not only like cheating but very disgusting considering that’s his sister in law.
Idk about you but I couldn’t still be with someone after learning this about them.

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All of the pornography in the world he could've watched. Literally Thousands and thousands of free videos and he chose to watch your sister. Smh human men.... They are just ... utterly disgusting and incredibly STUPID.

Legit.
I have nothing against porn, it's a respectable industry. Have nothing against OF, my bestie has one.
BUT.! You had a rule.
Don't. Watch. My. SISTER.
That's pretty basic. Not hard to understand.
I would not forgive, I would not forget.

There's a fantastic group on FB that would give you great advice on how to handle this, honestly.

It's called 'I don't want to kink shame, I just want to kink ask why?’

My question to you is. Do you know for a fact he got off to her? Did he just want to see what was on her page ( still not okay) but just curious.. I would definitely sit him down with the proof and have a serious talk with him… see how he reacts and see if this is something you can get past.. I definitely wouldn’t want my husband watching my sister and her man 🤮 but only you can make the decision on what you want to do next.

Um that’s a gross feeling . Im sorry you’re dealing with this

well.. I saw he did it again.. sooo I’m assuming that’s what he’s doing!?!

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