Shoul I let my child’s father rename our son?
So my whole pregnancy so far (I’m 19 week) my child’s father has been absent literally blocked me on everything do to the fact that I didn’t get an abortion. He currently in jail right now and he called me yesterday for the first time since my pregnancy. The conversation was very overwhelming and kind of annoying. My child’s father is 18 and I’m 17 so we are both teenage parents, he explained to me that he feel like “messed his life up” by not getting an abortion. that part lasted kinda long. As we proceeded to talk I told him our sons name (Ky’Mauri) he goes on to tell me that our child’s name is “ghetto” and I shouldn’t name him that because he wanted to name him something different. I explained to him that our child’s name has already been made up and that he can’t just pop up out of the blue trying to change things because he feels like he can because he is the father. He told me that I was immature for say that and I should consider him wanting to come to an agreement on a new name for the baby. So what do you all think I should do? Should I agree to changing our sons name or not?
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I wouldn’t
I wouldn't even have him on the birth certificate, block him on everything.
Girl ain’t no way. If he cared that much he would’ve made sure he was around the entire time. You definitely didn’t ruin his life if anything a baby is a blessing. Don’t entertain that he wants to control something.
thank youuu
So let me get this right .. he doesn’t want the kid, blames you for destroying his life .. , doesn’t want to be responsible but want to name the child .. a real definition of eat ur cake and have it .. honey that’s ur child .. name him what ever you want .. block his ass .. don’t let him back in ur life or that child’s life .. he is being manipulative .. wtf
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Girl don’t listen to that man he has no say so in the babies life if he feel like you ruining his and did he say he was gone step up and be a man and take care of his responsibilities or did he just want you to change the name either way that’s your baby you pick the name if he don’t like it oh well
he did say he was going to step up and be apart of the babies life. But he feels like I “ruined” his life because now he has a responsibility to take care of and I didn’t get an abortion like he told me to.
imma let you know now believe that man the first time he’s not going to do nothing but make your life hard when the baby gets here you young don’t stress over it you got this your going to be a bomb mom with or without his help name your baby what you choose
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