Venting

Is it just me marriage is so hard all I want to do is just cry and I just to talk to my family or friends here where I live but it's all negative and I don't need that I been praying and reading my Bible it seems like nothing is working all he does he scream at me and it bothers me so much he said it's all my fault I am just so confused all I can do it just cry we only been married been a year this year I feel so stupid and unworthy or my kids and etc like I don't deserve anything I been trying to keep positive vibes nothing works I don't know what to do anymore 😭😭 I wish I can really talk to someone that understands me really I been praying I don't know what else to do I ask him maybe we need a marriage counseling he said no!!! I am pregnant at the end of my second trimester and I have 3 toddlers that I stay home with I am doing the best I can

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Hi shae, I see you and I hear you!! I want you to know this. I understand how you can feel. This is a heavy feeling. I want you to know that I can see a life of peace for you and your beautiful baby’s!! It won’t always be this way. Please don’t give up for your baby’s and always know that all your sacrifices aren’t going unnoticed god loves you so. If you ever need some one to just listen you can always talk to me. Thank you for being so beautiful and bold to reach out and speak your heart ❤️

Stephanie 🌹

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omg 😭😭😭 thank you so much I really needed to hear this ❤️🥰 you're amazing if feels like I am so alone in this and it's very hard and I can do it just cry out to God u will think you're family and friends will be there the most but they are not they just vanished and lefted because I don't have anything that they want anymore so they stop coming by and etc. So it's just me thank you girl you're so amazing God bless you

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I completely can relate to this . I get told “shut up” and get told I’m stupid almost every single day. I am literally the nicest person and try to keep the peace but no matter what I always seem to say or do the wrong thing in my husbands eyes. I also tried reading the Bible and turning to God for strength. We will get through this

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I am so sorry you're going through this as well marriage is super hard I used to think every marriage is perfect but u don't know what no one goes through it amen we will definitely get through this in Jesus name!!! I am praying for you and you're marriage as well 💜💜

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